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The Good, Bad and Ugly of Me



The Good

  1. Love:   Love and I go hand in hand. I am addicted to love because it make my world go round, happy, self confident and fulfilled.
  2. Helpful:  I help people through prayers, advice, care, material things, could be finances and my precious time.
  3. Intelligent: Sure, I’m a very intelligent woman. I’ve got my witness; Dad and Mum (both late), my brothers, my boyfriend and friends.
  4. Beautiful: I am beautiful inside and out; large eyes, full eyebrows and lashes, pointed nose, kissable lips, nice set of teeth, full hair, full boobs, small waist, portable hips, straight legs, good complexion and nice smile + a dimple.
  5. Confident: I can give several examples to prove how confident I am and how much my confidence has soared.
  6. Smart: I am a smart ass kid.

The Bad

  1. Selfish: I am selfish because I always put myself first and I am greedy.
  2. Self centered: The world revolves around me and all ever think of is me, me, me even if I’m thinking of a guy is for my own good – I will want him to love me than he loves himself.
  3. Fornicate: I do fornicate because having sex before marriage is termed as fornication
  4. Stealing: I do steal; meat from the soup pot, N50 from my mum’s purse, food in the kitchen, books, magazines and credit from a friend’s phone is still termed stealing. I’ve not gone Plc though.
  5. Masturbation: I masturbate a lot except I’m in foul mood. Whenever I see a display of sex or hear sex I imagine the scenario and masturbate, I always feel bad after doing it but I can’t stop.
  6. Anger: I have a quick temper, small things annoy me especially when it comes to matters of the heart or money.

The Ugly

  1. Envy: I usually envy people that are prettier than me, successful than  me, have a better boyfriend than me, dresses well than me, anybody that has something good than me is who I get envious of.
  2. Evil thoughts: Most times I think evil, like seeing someone and calling her ‘Bitch’ or ‘look at her big nose’ or ‘ I hope you slip and break your neck’ especially to people who do things to hurt me.
  3. Lazy: I am freaking lazy and this makes me procrastinate or leave things undone or not done well. Like it took me ages to write this.
  4. Malice: I can keep malice for years, might have forgiven the person but find it very hard to forget.


Writer: Wemimo

Image: Getty images

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    August 1, 2010 at 10:52 pm

    this is revealing , yes , everyone of us have our good , bad and the ugly.but we have a God who is willing to make us perfect just as we are, we just need to submit ourselves so He can work on us . Weaknesses are meant to be overcome . thank u wemimo, you are moulded daily into the form God wants you to be.


    toyin akins

    August 3, 2010 at 4:23 am

    This is real eye-opener so help us God!!! Especially the so called “Heirs of the Kingdom”.



    August 3, 2010 at 9:03 am

    u r strong. i like dis.



    August 7, 2010 at 10:35 am

    Wow… brave woman



    August 7, 2010 at 3:26 pm

    Hmmmm….you are courageous!
    However, where your strength stops, His grace carries you further! Do not be deceived, there is none perfect in the whole world, NO ONE. Just strive to be better and with His help, you will conquer…



    August 7, 2010 at 5:16 pm

    Dear Wemimo, While I salute your candor, you do sound like one very scary woman…



    August 9, 2010 at 12:10 pm

    mmmmmmh if only we all can be this true to ourselves



    August 18, 2010 at 9:58 am

    I have been very scared to reveal this but I believe everybody has secrets and mine is not an exception…I believe in being open purges you…Thank you all for the comments…….


    oladehinde olabisi

    August 31, 2012 at 3:38 pm

    I like dis baby but nobody is perfect

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