This year we have read so many discussions and arguments on social media about the roles of women in a home.
It is sad to see that many men vehemently believe a woman should do all the housework and childcare in addition to having a full time job, without any help from the husband.
Oby Ezekwesili posted some tweets to address this yesterday. When a God fearing woman who is happily married and highly successful in her career gives advise on marriage, we absolutely think it is worth listening to!
Sometimes, when I read tweets of some young ones on twitter, I mutter to myself, “where did this very old thought come from in a young man”
I cooked Ofe Nsala & Coconut-Oil Stew 4 my family Christmas meal. I also wrote a Policy Note for the Leader of an African country. #SoWhat?
A woman can do multiple tasks in Life. She can be a professional, a daughter, a sibling, a wife, a mom. Stop those artificial dichotomies.
Don’t allow your mind to construct artificial dichotomies & then enter into marriage. A true COUPLE can get ANYTHING THEY WANT DONE, DONE.
It is only an overgrown baby of a man that does not lift a finger &SUPPORT his wife to bc a Composite Achiever. Grow up, Baby Boys.Grow up
Some of you young men tweet here as if you are looking for a 21st century maid as a wife. You better not get married yet. Grow up 1st
Some of you young married men carry on as if you did your wife a favor getting married. Stop it. Combine forces&get things done in the home
As a woman, you will not always get it right balancing the multiple tasks but with the RIGHT mindset& a REAL man (no baby boy) you’ll be ok
The most foolish decision you’ll ever make in life is to marry a person you can comfortably watch struggling and not lift a hand to support.
So, my dear young ones believe me when I say that your marriage decision can make or mar you. Don’t make it lightly. Deep calls unto Deep.