Tola Ajayi is a sex and fertility counsellor and also the Clinic Manager at Nordica Fertility Centre which is owned by her husband.
In this interview with Sunday Sun she talks about the need for couples to spice things up and how pornography helps.
On recommending pornography
There was a third man too who couldn’t have an erection. I told him we have films he could watch and the wife said “film”? No he can’t do that”. I reiterated just leave that one, go and watch a film and they did….The man watched them with his wife and they were able to produce triplets. There are lots of memories.
When the man cannot have erection. He needs something to stimulate him. Most times, it’s not as if they have problems with erection at home but because of the anxiety of having to produce in the clinic on treatment day even for a test.
On whether pornography is sinful or not
Where is it written in the bible? One thing I have come to realize is they over-spiritualize things. I don’t recommend going to a cinema to watch porn; these things are private and you can watch it in the comfort of your bedroom with your spouse. I just told you about a couple that were unable to produce and they did just that. Why did the man have an erection watching a porno? Whatever you have to do with your husband or your wife to make your home pleasant go ahead and do it. Watch pornography, it’s not sinful. Just make sure you keep them away from the children though. If your husband is aroused by a blowjob, do it.
Sunday Sun has the full interview