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I Have Got A Heart As Loud As Lions, So Why Let My Voice Be Tamed?


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One of my favourite songs of all times is Emeli Sande’s Read All About It.

In the year I fell in love with this song, every evening after work I put it on auto replay while I drowned the noise of the world in a warm bath.

There I could listen to my own inner voice, untamed, unafraid, and unashamed. There I could be the one who is not stuck in silence afraid of saying something wrong.

But when the water turns cold, and it is time to pull the sink stopper and press the stop button, I get back to reality where the price of being different was too high for me to pay.

To have a dream, to pursue that dream, to make that dream come true against all odds, to fall and to rise and still keep striving for success, takes boldness.

It has been a few years since then, and slowly but steadily I am raising my voice and speaking my truths. I am finding my paths and embracing the beauty of my own authenticity.

On this journey, I have been a student of the life journeys of many women – the amazing women in my family, women in my workplace and the very many women, whose stories I read and share on Woman.NG every day.

Of the ones who slayed and the ones who got slain, of the ones who walk through life heads up and the ones who crawl with fingers fastened  on the patched hard soil, of the ones who started early and bloomed early, and the ones who started early but bloomed late, of the ones living their dreams and the ones who will never get the happiness they truly deserve.

Of every woman who has dared to be bold to do what they believe in, in spite of the many limitations that surround them everyday.

I fall, I fail, I falter, but I am no longer afraid. I cry, I sweat, I bleed, but I am now bold to make the changes I want in my life and in my world.

I wish you a Happy International Women’s Day. May you find your own voice and be bold enough to own it!


My name is Shola Okubote, I am the Founder of

You can reach me on

 Twitter – @sholaokubote, and Instagram – sholaokubote





  1. Ebioney Jerome

    Ebioney Jerome

    March 8, 2017 at 2:59 pm

    Emeli Sande

  2. Vivian Felix

    Vivian Felix

    March 8, 2017 at 6:07 pm

    I love this word’s, please permit me to quote you using this word’s

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    June 22, 2017 at 9:04 pm

    Thank you Sola, for creating a site so full of wisdom and inspiration, the excellence just gives me life. I’ve been really inspired, so much so I googled to find the founder but found nothing till I saw links to your blog on the sides.
    I’m at this stage where you speak about and I can relate totally. I’m a former high flier, lost my job, starting out now on birthing my passion, but I still feel so afraid and so unsure sometimes… can’t even post anything on social media, I feel like what do I have to say? I’m so broken.
    I know I’m on a journey and I get stronger by the day… its great to read this piece, makes me realize that I’m not alone with my feelings, its okay to feel this way and find the strength to dust if off and move forward daily. To find my strength and my voice.
    Thanks for the song… made me shed a few tears… one of my favorite songs of all time is Kelly Clarkson’s ‘Break away’

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