“Even After One Marriage Mishap, I Should Be Pessimistic About Love But I’m Not” – Toni Payne On Finding Love Again


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Many women are anxious about getting into another relationship and finding love again after divorce, but Toni Payne says, if you do it right, the second time can actually be the charm.

In a series of tweets, she explained that she was not pessimistic about love despite what happened to her first marriage.

According to her, she is experiencing peace with the second despite the challenges.

She advised women to learn to love themselves first because they will never settle for less.

She tweeted,

It’s so beautiful when the person u will spend the rest of our life with spends half the time saying they love u & the other half showing it.

Ladies, fall in love with someone who has fallen deeply in love with u. There is a certain peace of mind that comes with it. Thank me later

When it’s deep, real deep love, u will know. All doubts will be cleared because it will flow. When he says I love you, u will feel it in your soul

Iv seen what it is to work hard for love and Iv seen what it is to be truly loved by just being u. The difference is like night and day.

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The first one feels like turmoil, constant emotional ups & downs. The second is peace. Even with “challenges,” the peace never leaves.

I should just go ahead and write a self-help book about relationships. Lol… Too many gems from experience to share.

Self-love is key… it will lead you to the right kind of love. When you love yourself, truly, you will never settle.

Even after one marriage mishap, I should be pessimistic about love, but I’m not. Don’t let anyone convince you that it doesn’t exist. It does!

Ours is not perfect, but it’s imperfectly beautiful.

2nd time is a charm.


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