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Our Thoughts And Prayers Are With Ify Who Lost Four Family Members In One Day


For Ify Arinze, we pray that God will hold and sustain her through the sorrows and grief. May she be lifted from the darkness of this grief to a place of peace and light.



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It's so difficult to think, eat, talk or even breath! Even the strength to pray have also deserted me. I and my brother needs ur prayers cause am drained of everything! Exactly one week today! I lost my mother, my brother's wife, and his two kids, in one day and one place! They went to bed and didn't wake up! They said they were poisoned! My mother only went for omugwo, she walked into my brother's house with her two legs, alive and healthy and three weeks later, she was carried out as a corpse alongside the child she came to do omugwo for! Now I have to bury 4 members of my family at once! Only God can heal my brother and I ,am not strong enough to even comfort him at this time, cause I can barely pick my own pieces! please remember us in ur prayers! Cause words have failed us this time! We can't ask why us, or why our family! Cause the Truth is nobody, absolutely no one deserves this amount of pains! I hope and pray we find our way back to normalcy after all of this! Cause this is the kind of pain that changes a being forever! Farewell to my Mother, the womb that carried me! The one that nurtured me, Farewell to my sister in law,(Amara) Farewell to my niece (Chisimdi) and Farewell to my nephew who was barely 2 month old( Chimeremeze)… they said we can't question God! But my heart is full with questions!!! 😢😢😢

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  1. Amaka Eziagwu

    Amaka Eziagwu

    August 2, 2017 at 7:12 pm

    Ahhhhhh this is too much.God. Console you n your brother

  2. Anulika Lawrencia

    Anulika Lawrencia

    August 2, 2017 at 7:27 pm

    Hmmmm may their souls rest in peace

  3. Imaerele Major

    Imaerele Major

    August 2, 2017 at 7:27 pm

    My condolence.

  4. Tawa Abu

    Tawa Abu

    August 2, 2017 at 7:36 pm

    The Almighty God who is a great comforter will comfort her.

  5. Glory Ambrose

    Glory Ambrose

    August 2, 2017 at 7:36 pm

    My condol

  6. Glory Ambrose

    Glory Ambrose

    August 2, 2017 at 7:37 pm

    My condolences

  7. Hannah Konkebe Milkman

    Hannah Konkebe Milkman

    August 2, 2017 at 7:42 pm

    Jesus comfort her

  8. Adaobi Philomena Abali

    Adaobi Philomena Abali

    August 2, 2017 at 7:53 pm


  9. Cornelius Chimamanda

    Cornelius Chimamanda

    August 2, 2017 at 7:59 pm

    Take heart ify…..God will really change your story ….. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss

  10. Olufunke Orefuye Ogunlade

    Olufunke Orefuye Ogunlade

    August 2, 2017 at 8:09 pm

    May God comfort you on every side.

  11. Tolulope Ayobami Solaja

    Tolulope Ayobami Solaja

    August 2, 2017 at 8:09 pm

    My condolence, may God console her…

  12. Euch Okafor

    Euch Okafor

    August 2, 2017 at 8:12 pm

    What all dis pple in a day ooh dear i feel ur pain bt God knows best R.i.p to them.

  13. Uche Nnakaife

    Uche Nnakaife

    August 2, 2017 at 8:17 pm

    My condolences

  14. Osaretin Esther

    Osaretin Esther

    August 2, 2017 at 8:23 pm

    God is ur comforter nd he will heal ur wounds in due time

  15. Onyie Onwuasoanya

    Onyie Onwuasoanya

    August 2, 2017 at 8:24 pm

    Dis is really heavy
    God pls comfort her and give her the courage to live on and heal his brother.

  16. Ify Chinaka

    Ify Chinaka

    August 2, 2017 at 8:26 pm

    My condolences

  17. Nwokike Mercy Slim

    Nwokike Mercy Slim

    August 2, 2017 at 8:30 pm

    my condolences

  18. Esther Ekpang

    Esther Ekpang

    August 2, 2017 at 8:30 pm

    May the good lord uphold u

  19. Omowumi Azeez

    Omowumi Azeez

    August 2, 2017 at 8:36 pm

    God will console u

  20. Eziunor Vic

    Eziunor Vic

    August 2, 2017 at 8:40 pm

    May the great comforter, soothe your pains

  21. Muibdeen Balikis

    Muibdeen Balikis

    August 2, 2017 at 9:02 pm

    So sad May Their soul rest in perfect peace

  22. Jessica Chukwu

    Jessica Chukwu

    August 2, 2017 at 9:26 pm

    Only God knows best, I really can’t understand, it’s really painful.

  23. Nwahiri Judith

    Nwahiri Judith

    August 2, 2017 at 9:32 pm

    May God console her

  24. Vivian Chikodi

    Vivian Chikodi

    August 2, 2017 at 9:55 pm

    May God comfort you and yours. Rip to the dead.

  25. Amara Irene

    Amara Irene

    August 2, 2017 at 10:22 pm


  26. Gift Iwendi

    Gift Iwendi

    August 2, 2017 at 11:04 pm

    Be ye of good comfort Dear Iffy…

  27. Eyitayo Oruche

    Eyitayo Oruche

    August 2, 2017 at 11:11 pm

    Hummmm. It is well with you IJMN

  28. Uyoke Queen

    Uyoke Queen

    August 3, 2017 at 12:12 am

    Rest in peace

  29. Erus Onome

    Erus Onome

    August 3, 2017 at 12:55 am

    God will uphold and strengthen you..

  30. Nkoyo Ita Ekpenyong

    Nkoyo Ita Ekpenyong

    August 3, 2017 at 3:32 am

    May you find the strength to move on even as we pray for God’s comfort over you and your brother.

  31. Ejimkonye Vivian Onuwa Otoro

    Ejimkonye Vivian Onuwa Otoro

    August 3, 2017 at 4:25 am

    God please comfort her. it is well

  32. Chidinma Amaeshi

    Chidinma Amaeshi

    August 3, 2017 at 6:06 am

    Chai! So sorry may God Almighty console you.

  33. Onyinyechi Ekeh

    Onyinyechi Ekeh

    August 3, 2017 at 7:07 am

    May the Holy Spirit the comforter comfort you

  34. Duchess Temi Tayo

    Duchess Temi Tayo

    August 3, 2017 at 7:19 am

    God alone wil comfrt u

  35. Bolanle Adeyemo Agbayekhai

    Bolanle Adeyemo Agbayekhai

    August 3, 2017 at 8:51 am

    Great comforter pls console ur daughter

  36. Maud Fleischer Djoleto

    Maud Fleischer Djoleto

    August 3, 2017 at 8:59 am

    Take heart my dear

  37. Oni Modupe Adebayo

    Oni Modupe Adebayo

    August 3, 2017 at 9:16 am

    God console your daughter in this time of sorrow.

  38. Okeke Eucharia

    Okeke Eucharia

    August 3, 2017 at 9:24 am

    Hmmmm, The Lord is your strength

  39. Ayoade Aderonke Bob-Manuel

    Ayoade Aderonke Bob-Manuel

    August 3, 2017 at 9:42 am

    So sorry SIS,may the God of all comfort,comfort you and your brother.

  40. Vicky Onwuka

    Vicky Onwuka

    August 3, 2017 at 10:03 am

    Be consoled dear as the lord is and will continue to be your strength

  41. Faith Ogoke Joseph Okeke

    Faith Ogoke Joseph Okeke

    August 3, 2017 at 10:13 am

    May the Lord strengthen you and give you the strength to move on

  42. Rita Chy

    Rita Chy

    August 3, 2017 at 10:13 am

    May God give you the fortitude to bear the loss, RIP to them

  43. Tochukwu Ifeoma Dorris

    Tochukwu Ifeoma Dorris

    August 3, 2017 at 11:07 am

    May God strengthen you

  44. Blessing Obiwulu Uzuegbu

    Blessing Obiwulu Uzuegbu

    August 3, 2017 at 11:47 am

    Take heart ooo

  45. Onyeka Molokwu

    Onyeka Molokwu

    August 3, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    May God strengthen you

  46. Oluebube Favour

    Oluebube Favour

    August 3, 2017 at 4:29 pm


  47. Ibukun Joan Oredipe

    Ibukun Joan Oredipe

    August 3, 2017 at 5:17 pm

    May God send the comforter to you…it is well…

  48. Ekwenze Nneka

    Ekwenze Nneka

    August 3, 2017 at 5:43 pm


  49. Precious Ebube

    Precious Ebube

    August 3, 2017 at 5:45 pm

    Chai so sad pls take heart love God knows the best RIP to them

  50. Favour Atukosi Chukwuka

    Favour Atukosi Chukwuka

    August 3, 2017 at 6:50 pm

    This is very painful, sorry dear, may God comfort you and you brother in Jesus name Amen

  51. Chukwu Nnenna Eneh

    Chukwu Nnenna Eneh

    August 3, 2017 at 7:52 pm

    This is very painful, may the good lord comfort u and ur brother. May their souls rest in peace

  52. Olabisi Falore

    Olabisi Falore

    August 3, 2017 at 10:09 pm

    D LORD ll comfort him on all sides IJN.

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