“Cooking Has Lost Its Joy, Because You’re Not There To Ask All Those Questions: Mummy What Are You Cooking Now?” – Eucharia Anunobi Lives On With Memories Of Her Son


“Your mum is absolutely distraught without you still,” Eucharia Anunobi says in a long post on her Instagram page, three months after she lost her son to sickle cell.

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She wrote,

22nd August 2017 was the day God’s precious child and son, the amazing blessing God blessed me with , that made me to be a mother , travelled out of this earth .
5th September 2017 was the day his fleshly remains was committed to mother earth.

5th December 2017 was the day it cumulated three months of my mourning him , for the purposes of observing rites of culture / tradition.

Raymond Joshua Chimaobi Chimnonso Ekwu , your mummy is absolutely distraught without you still. Our home is so silent now without you. Every time I still peep into your room to see if you’re there. When I drive back home, I long to see your smiling face radiating that joy of seeing me back.

Cooking has lost it’s joy, because you’re not there to ask all those questions: mummy what are you cooking now? What’s that? Why do you put that? Mummy please can I stir the contents of what you’re cooking? Can I get a piece of meat?

No more will I hear you say: mummy my sleep mode is not activated yet, when I say : Chimnonso go to sleep right now !

No one to ask me : mummy how come am getting pimples on my face and you don’t have ? And I have to answer: Joshua , you’re in your puberty years and becoming a young man ? Aaaaah my son, my baby, the most considerate child, my six feet four inches ( 6ft , 4 inches tall ) adorable giant, I miss you oooooooo.

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Be that as it may , I want to use this medium to wholeheartedly appreciate God , the eternal rock of ages , the all knowing emperor of the universe , the pillar of my life , for it all.


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  1. Onyinye Okwuegbunem

    Onyinye Okwuegbunem

    December 8, 2017 at 9:34 pm

    Take heart

  2. Kemy Ife

    Kemy Ife

    December 8, 2017 at 9:36 pm

    So sad…. May his soul rest in peace

  3. Hope Amarachi Opara

    Hope Amarachi Opara

    December 8, 2017 at 9:37 pm

    So sorry Mar. For your loss…

  4. James Oluwatosin

    James Oluwatosin

    December 8, 2017 at 9:38 pm

    The Lord will console you

  5. Goodluck Yetunde

    Goodluck Yetunde

    December 8, 2017 at 9:41 pm

    It is well, God knows best

  6. Nnedi Okechukwu

    Nnedi Okechukwu

    December 8, 2017 at 9:43 pm

    Oh God, I pray that you mend her broken heart, Amen. It’s well.

  7. Maria Ijeoma

    Maria Ijeoma

    December 8, 2017 at 9:43 pm

    Be Consoled In Jesus Name

  8. Ramat Peace

    Ramat Peace

    December 8, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    Take heart ma,d lord is ur strength

  9. Johnson Omobolanle Ameenat

    Johnson Omobolanle Ameenat

    December 8, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    So sorry ma.

  10. Funmi Wuraola

    Funmi Wuraola

    December 8, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    Am not happy at all when seeing people in this mood But God will strengthen you.

  11. Olubo Sonia

    Olubo Sonia

    December 8, 2017 at 9:47 pm

    It is well ma, the lord will continue to console you.

  12. Linda Okorie-udemba

    Linda Okorie-udemba

    December 8, 2017 at 9:48 pm

    Take heart.. God will strengthen u

  13. Rebecca Gabriel

    Rebecca Gabriel

    December 8, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    It’s Well

  14. Freya Nelson

    Freya Nelson

    December 8, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    Take heart ma,, God is your friend..

  15. Franka Barango

    Franka Barango

    December 8, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    I feel your pain but God will fill the Vacuum he has created. Be consoled in Him alone.

  16. Ima Ogini

    Ima Ogini

    December 8, 2017 at 9:55 pm

    God comfort and strengthen you.

  17. Adajoy Adajoy

    Adajoy Adajoy

    December 8, 2017 at 9:58 pm

    Take heart madam, I know is not easy but God knows the best

  18. Winnie Akagha Jeebelle

    Winnie Akagha Jeebelle

    December 8, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    This woman needs close sincere people around her.

  19. Chidimma Galaxybaby

    Chidimma Galaxybaby

    December 8, 2017 at 10:08 pm

    Is well ma

  20. Bukola Aderemi

    Bukola Aderemi

    December 8, 2017 at 10:10 pm

    It’s well ma

  21. Itohan Omoijiade

    Itohan Omoijiade

    December 8, 2017 at 10:20 pm

    Heavenly Father amend the heart of your daughter . It is well,the good lord will continue to strength you ma

  22. Cindarella Nathaniel

    Cindarella Nathaniel

    December 8, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    Take Hard, God no it all, is our prayers that God will consoled you

  23. Amarachi David Onyekwere

    Amarachi David Onyekwere

    December 8, 2017 at 10:36 pm

    It is well, please take solace in God

  24. Omosekeji Ufoma Mary

    Omosekeji Ufoma Mary

    December 8, 2017 at 10:42 pm

    Pls take heart ma

  25. Chima Precious

    Chima Precious

    December 8, 2017 at 11:14 pm

    Awwwnnnn… It’s so hard to let go… Do take Heart Ma

  26. Stella Eze

    Stella Eze

    December 8, 2017 at 11:18 pm

    Take heart mama, its well with you

  27. Tina Onah

    Tina Onah

    December 8, 2017 at 11:30 pm

    May d lord console u ma

  28. Bashirat Shittu Ajenifuja

    Bashirat Shittu Ajenifuja

    December 8, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    So touching God is your strength

  29. Ruth Angel Emmanuel

    Ruth Angel Emmanuel

    December 8, 2017 at 11:34 pm

    Oh God, grant her the fortitude to bear the lost n also fill up the vacuum that has been created in Jesus name Amen

  30. Ogieva Ayodele

    Ogieva Ayodele

    December 8, 2017 at 11:51 pm

    So painful and sad

  31. Onyinyechi Udochukwu

    Onyinyechi Udochukwu

    December 9, 2017 at 12:03 am

    Eyaaa,,,,sorry for ur lost ok …pls take heart.. God No’s why it happened like dis..

  32. Abigail Olanloye

    Abigail Olanloye

    December 9, 2017 at 12:10 am

    It’s well ,God understander why .Pls just take heart

  33. Eziama Florence

    Eziama Florence

    December 9, 2017 at 4:42 am

    U K my dear, take heart, that is life for you what are you to do now? The innocent boy is now with his maker and you are here crying. I know that it is not easy but try and resort to the words of God for consolation. Take heart please.

  34. Taibat Biodun Adelaja

    Taibat Biodun Adelaja

    December 9, 2017 at 5:47 am

    God will console you..

  35. Onebunne Millicent

    Onebunne Millicent

    December 9, 2017 at 9:17 am

    Take heart dear

  36. Rosemary Aba Ifeoma

    Rosemary Aba Ifeoma

    December 9, 2017 at 10:09 am

    Chai!!! Take heart ma

  37. Blessing Williams

    Blessing Williams

    December 9, 2017 at 11:25 am

    May the Lord Almighty comfort and strengthen you.

  38. Amate Scarlet

    Amate Scarlet

    December 9, 2017 at 12:58 pm

    The lord is your strength

  39. Rikkey Brown

    Rikkey Brown

    December 9, 2017 at 2:00 pm

    Be consoled. I know you are a strong woman. Its of no use ruminating on the good times you had with your son, his,s gone for ever. Find a way to fill the vacum created.

  40. Rikkey Brown

    Rikkey Brown

    December 9, 2017 at 2:03 pm

    What a great loss. Be courageous and move on. The Lord is your strength

  41. Janet Simon

    Janet Simon

    December 9, 2017 at 2:17 pm

    Find a way to fill the vacuum created may God continues to consoles u Amen

  42. Elina Anyebe Adi

    Elina Anyebe Adi

    December 9, 2017 at 3:19 pm

    Hmmm Abiyamo. So sad

  43. Nma Favour

    Nma Favour

    December 9, 2017 at 4:49 pm

    Is well ma take heart

  44. Izuchukwu Umeh

    Izuchukwu Umeh

    December 9, 2017 at 6:22 pm

    Please dear stop making us to shade tears

  45. Joy Ogho Oni

    Joy Ogho Oni

    December 9, 2017 at 6:36 pm

    It is well with you ma.

  46. Akua Dedei

    Akua Dedei

    December 9, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    Cheer up my sister. God is with you. He will not leave u not forsaken you

  47. Kelechi Reginah Nwaorgu

    Kelechi Reginah Nwaorgu

    December 9, 2017 at 8:36 pm

    Our God will strengthen you in Jesus name. .amen

  48. Ifunanya Agulefo

    Ifunanya Agulefo

    December 9, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    Be consoled

  49. Lafinda Mercy Paul

    Lafinda Mercy Paul

    December 9, 2017 at 11:47 pm

    God will console you ijn

  50. Ruth Robert

    Ruth Robert

    December 10, 2017 at 4:38 pm

    Please ma take heart

  51. Miriam Nzeji

    Miriam Nzeji

    December 10, 2017 at 8:50 pm

    Take hrt MA for the loss

  52. Omata Oche

    Omata Oche

    December 11, 2017 at 6:04 am

    Pls take heart,God knows d best.

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