Motherhood

Many Things To Learn From 85-Year-Old Mrs Olubisi Osinbajo On Raising The Boy-Child

   

With the ongoing advocacy for the proper training of the boy-child, Mrs. Olubisi Osinbajo’s advice on raising the boy-child comes in handy.

Mrs. Olubisi is the 85-year-old mother of the Vice-president. Having raised four sons and a daughter, she confessed that training her children, especially the boys, wasn’t a walk in the park, let alone raising responsible and successful children.

Mrs. Olabisi talks about raising her boy-children and you can be sure to learn something from it.

She said,

It was a tough time. When you are dealing with boys, you don’t sleep with your two eyes closed, and I would give you some instances to buttress that point. One night, I went round the rooms to make sure they had all slept. However, there was one empty bed and I wondered where the occupant of the bed could be at that time.

I took a chair to the front of the house and I was there till about 4am, when one of my sons drove into the compound in my car. I didn’t even know that he could drive. He changed into his pajamas and tip-toed into the house; immediately he saw me, he shouted “mummy” in surprise.

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We held each other and began crying. He asked me if I had sat there the whole night, and I told him that I couldn’t sleep, knowing that one of my children was not in his bed. He prostrated and begged me not to tell his dad about his escapade. I told him that I wouldn’t inform his dad only if he promised that he wouldn’t repeat the act.

On another occasion, one of my sons drove in someone else’s car and he had an accident in it with his girlfriend. When I was informed, I rushed to the scene and took him to the hospital; and the parents of the girl also did the same. I asked them to x-ray his head to make sure that nothing was wrong with him because he hit his head on an object when the accident occurred.

As a mother, you have to be active. Sometimes, you have to put on trousers and show them that you can act like them. When they jump, you jump too; and that is why I am called ‘Mummysco’. I thank God that everything is alright today. Parenting is not easy; it takes the grace of God to succeed at it. You cannot train children on your own; you can only pray for God to help you.

There are so many things you can do without using the cane. Once, when one of my sons was making trouble, I threatened that I wouldn’t refer to him as Mr. until he changed. I told him that whenever I wrote him letters, I would just write his name without adding Mr. He cried and begged me to call him Mr. You may think it is insignificant but that threat changed the boy at that time.

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He began to do well and I finally called him Mr. You can achieve a lot by praying. I used to wake them up at 4am every day to pray. God is faithful and he always answers prayers of parents. I advise those still actively raising children to pray a lot for and with them. If your child does not do what you like, call on Him and He would answer.

On boys doing house chores

Of course, they did. Everyone had something to do in the house. They can cook very well and some of their girlfriends, who couldn’t cook, ran away because they felt they wouldn’t be able to meet up. They can do a lot of things. Their father always told them that whenever they wanted to greet an elderly person, they should prostrate. One day, Yemi prostrated in court for his friend’s father and the man really appreciated the gesture because even his own son didn’t prostrate in the courtroom. We always emphasised to them that they should be humble at all times.

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6 Comments

6 Comments

  1. Tarelaifa Otuarue

    Tarelaifa Otuarue

    March 14, 2018 at 7:08 am

    Mummysco Mummysco. You really raised our VP well. God bless you Ma.

  2. Tomiwa Ajide

    Tomiwa Ajide

    March 14, 2018 at 7:17 am

    Mummysco I really celebrate you plenty plenty… More strength and blessings

  3. Omotolani Adenike

    Omotolani Adenike

    March 14, 2018 at 7:18 am

    E tun bo pe laye ma

  4. Comfort Mamudu

    Comfort Mamudu

    March 14, 2018 at 9:55 am

    Mummysco! Kudo’s to you jor

  5. Magdalene Uweh

    Magdalene Uweh

    March 14, 2018 at 10:03 am

    Very nice

  6. Papia Banerjee

    Papia Banerjee

    March 14, 2018 at 1:10 pm

    God bless you mummysco and mr.vice president..in india we say pronaam maa..

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