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Tope Alabi’s Mother Went the Extra Extra Mile to Make Sure Her Daughter Was a Virgin Bride

   

A good child is for the father while a bad one is for the mother – a popular saying in Nigeria. This saying made some of our mothers go to the extreme to ensure they raise a child they can be proud of.

Gospel singer, Tope Alabi’s mother left no stone unturned when she decided to go into the entertainment industry. To be sure her daughter was not immoral, she would check to know if she was still a virgin.

She said,

I was the only girl in the house and I was raised strictly. My mother was a disciplinarian and she brooked no nonsense. There was no room for me to go astray.

(My mum supported my career) because she was also a singer. She always sang around the house. She believed that one didn’t have to be immoral simply because she is a singer. Every other member of my family was not pleased with my music career but my mother never took offence. She taught me that a female shouldn’t be too close to men.

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For example, I was never bathed at the same time with my male siblings. My mother used to check if my virginity was intact every three months interval before I got married; especially whenever I returned from movie locations. When I newly got married to my husband, we went to the National Theatre in Lagos to watch a movie and actors like Yinka Quadri, Ebun Oloyede, among others were there.

When they saw my husband, they congratulated him and told him that he had chosen a good and exemplary wife. That made my husband quite happy. My mum was very strict and she never spared the rod. She also showed me a lot of motherly love.

My mum always taught me to be respectful. She mandated me to always kneel when greeting elderly people and I still do that till date, even for people I am older than.

Read full interview on Punch

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