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Betty Irabor’s No Bullshit Guide To Living Your Life In a Society That Judges You Based On What You Have

   

 

 

Recently, the story of a former project fame winner went viral because he was seen driving a taxi. When asked why, he said he was only trying to support himself to make enough money to make music. He explained that he is not ashamed of what he is doing

Nowadays, people are easily shamed for their choices especially when it doesn’t meet the expectation of others. Genevieve magazine publisher, Betty Irabor shared a personal experience about this while urging people to live and let others do same.

Read her message below

“A while ago, I travelled Premium Economy on Virgin Atlantic and sat comfortably on my seat waiting to enjoy a great flight. But my peace and quiet was not to be because a few people were embarrassed (on my behalf I guess) by my class of travel.

“Aunty Betty, were you downgraded?” Someone asked, really concerned and perhaps outraged by the audacity of any airline to down grade such a “high profile celebrity. ”

“No,” I shook my head. “I was not downgraded”. I smiled to reassure the aburo as she made her way to Upper Class.

Then came another “fan”- “Aunty Betty, are you ok, what happened?

How do you mean? I asked, really surprised.” I thought you would be in upper class”. I just smiled until she left. Like really?
But I wasn’t about to be left to travel my premium economy in peace as yet another “fan” came from her upper class seat to ask

“Aunty Betty, can I bring you some champagne, do you need anything?”(she is now the air hostess abi?) Again, I said No, I was fine!

Long and short of the story, I couldn’t travel in peace! People decided to make my business their own!

SEE ALSO: “I Am Expected To BE Like Our Mothers And Still DO More Than Them But Remain Like Them! Ha, I Am Confused Sometimes” – Sola Allyson On Being Her Own Kind Of Woman

Can we just allow people be? To make their own choices and take jobs that are available while they are waiting for their big breaks? Can a former Project Fame guy drive cabs in peace before his dream job and career? Can a former actor on Bill Cosby show bag groceries in peace and not be shamed? Can we just be and let others be?? Can we ourselves just live our best lives without padding anything to impress others who really don’t count? Can we resist societal pressures and live our lives on our terms? Can you just be you and do you?

Can you just be happy, married or in your singlehood? I urge you to be happy in your up and coming career, can you accept that you’re a work in progress? Can you not give a damn about other’s expectations? Can you choose not to accept any labeling?

Can you just not allow anyone/society dictate how you choose to live? Can you choose not to apologize for your own choices and decisions but be brave to OWN them and hold yourself accountable for any consequences?
Have a good week. Don’t burden your self unnecessarily.
Travel light!” ❤️

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