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What Happened Between Tomi Adeyemi And Nora Roberts Is A Reminder That We Need To Think Before We Post On Social Media

   

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Few days ago, Tomi Adeyemi, who is the author of the novel, Children of Blood and Bone  accused American writer Nora Roberts of copying the title of her book and shamelessly profiting off it.Tomi later twitted an apology but did not bring down her intial tweet of accusation. Nora Roberts has now replied to her with a post titled Mob Rule On Social Media

Below her Tomi’s tweets and Nora’s response;

Tomi Adeyemi issued an apology after revealing that Roberts reached out to her and explained that she’d never actually heard of her own book before the Twitter call out.

After Tomi’s public apology, Nora shared her thoughts on the issue. In an article titled, “Mob Rule by Social Media,” Nora described Tomi’s accusations as baseless. She explained that, knowing the power of social media, Tomi could have reached out to her or her publishers privately before she went on with the accusations.

Nora explained that she could have let the matter go, but Tomi’s fans were insulting and calling her a thief even after the matter had been clarified. Although Tomi has retracted her statement, her fans are still attacking Nora, who wants Tomi to put out the fire.

Here is an excerpt of Nora’s statement

I don’t believe, and have never believed in taking personal issues onto public forums. I don’t believe, and have never believed–will never believe–in a writer attacking another writing on a public forum. It’s unprofessional, it’s tacky and the results are, always, just always, ugly.

Recently another writer used her social media forums to baselessly, recklessly accuse me of stealing the title of her book–which is bullshit right off–to attempt to profit from this theft. She had no facts, just her emotions, and threw this out there for her followers.

First, let’s address the particular title which happens to be similar. I titled this particular book, wrote this book, turned this book into my publisher nearly a year before her book–a first novel–was published. So unless I conquered the time/space continuum, my book was actually titled before hers. Regardless, you can’t copyright a title. And titles, like broad ideas, just float around in the creative clouds. It’s what’s inside that counts.

It’s just a title.

By accusing me, in public, of attempting to ‘shamelessly profit’ off of her creativity, she incited her readers into attacking me–on her feed, then on my pages, then on the internet in general. She did nothing to stop this. I have been accused of theft, of trying to use this first time writer–whose book has been well received–for my own profit. To ride her coattails as I have no originality. This after more than thirty years in the business, more than two hundred books.

I was accused of plagiarism–for a title–of stealing her ideas–though I had never heard of her book before this firestorm, have never read her book.

And trust me, I never will now.

This is what happens when a reckless statement is made on social media. It becomes a monstrous lie that spreads and grows and escalates.

I don’t know this woman; she doesn’t know me. She lit the match, foolishly. Perhaps being young and new and so recently successful she doesn’t fully understand the relationship between a writer and her readers, or the power of an ugly insinuation posted on Twitter. But, God, you should know how tools work before you use them.

We should all take a lesson here. Think, then think again, before you post. Be sure of your facts before you take a shot at someone. Be prepared for the vicious fallout once you do.

No one who knows me would believe any of these accusations. But that’s the problem. Those making them don’t know me, they simply lash out because they can. This foolish and false statement has damaged my reputation. Vicious and ugly accusations and names have been tossed at me when I did nothing but write and title a book.

While this writer issued a kind of retraction after I reached out to her, it didn’t stop some of her readers from calling me a liar, and worse. We reached out again, asking her to put out the fire. We’ve had no response, not from her, not from her agent. Shame on them. I had every intention of letting this go, until the flames kept burning, until the attacks kept coming. And nothing was done by the person who lit the match to stop it.

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