Lape Soetan: 3 Ways To Know If He Loves You



When you first start dating a guy, it can be really really exciting.  Part of that excitement is not knowing what lies ahead.  However, the downside to not knowing what lies ahead is feeling very uncomfortable about where you stand in the relationship.

One of the commonest issues women have at this point is not knowing whether the guy really loves them.  In their minds, they’re thinking, “Does he really love me or is this just a passing thing for him?”  So in today’s video, I’m going to be telling you three ways to know if a guy really loves you.  You’re going to want to take notes so go get a piece of paper and a pen because you’re going to need them!  Let’s get into the video right now.

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The 1st way to know if a guy loves you is that he’ll go out of his way for you.  For example, if you need help or you’re stranded, he’ll do anything he can to help you.  A typical example is if you find that you’re stranded because somebody stole your wallet and you call him, he is going to go out of his way to make sure you get where you’re going safely.  Now, I’m not saying he is going to abandon everything in his office, just drop everything, climb on an okada and come and rescue you, although some guys would do that, but I’m not saying that’s what he is going to do.  But what he will do, if he loves you, is that he’ll make sure you get from where you are to where you’re safe.  If a guy loves you, he’ll sacrifice his comfort for you.

The 2nd way you’ll know if a guy loves you is that he’ll want to spend time with you.  If you find that you keep having to ask your guy when you guys are going to see, when you guys are going to hang out or if you feel like you have to fight for space in his calendar or his schedule, he doesn’t love you.  There’s nobody in this world that is so busy that they can’t spend time with somebody they love.  It just doesn’t happen.  If you have to fight for space in a guy’s life, he’s trying to tell you something and that something is that he does not love you.

The 3rd way you’ll know if a guy loves you is that he’ll tell you.  Maybe in the times of our fathers and grandfathers, men didn’t really say that they loved their partners but today’s world is completely different.  Men tell you that they love you if they do love you.  Don’t believe that story of “I’m too scared to say ‘I love you’.”  There is no man in this world that will not say that he loves you or is so scared of the L-word that he won’t say it to a woman that he loves, particularly if he knows it will comfort her or make her feel better or if he just wants to express himself.  There is no man that is so scared of the L-word.  If he loves you, he will tell you that he loves you.

Those are the 3 sure-fire ways you’ll know that a guy loves you.  I hope you enjoyed this post.  If you did, please a share it with your friends and also subscribe to my YouTube channel by clicking here.   You can get free tips from me by going to my Instagram page.   I give out daily tips there.  You can also get my free e-books by clicking here.   I wish you love and strength.  Bye!



Lape Soetan is a UK-certified relationship coach.  She helps single women over 30 attract and keep the right relationship while building lives they love.  Ms Soetan is the author of several books and details of her work can be found on www.lapesoetan.com

Want to attract the right relationship? Find out how with her free e-books.  Get them here: www.bitly.com/lapeslovetips


  1. Nephie Shagadi-Iyalomhe

    Nephie Shagadi-Iyalomhe

    December 13, 2018 at 6:02 pm


  2. Modupe Jimoh Doherty

    Modupe Jimoh Doherty

    December 13, 2018 at 11:50 pm


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