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Nigerians React To Morayo Afolabi-Brown’s Statement About Not Allowing Her Husband To Bathe Her Daughter | She Replies

   

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During a conversation about child abuse on a TVC show, one of the hosts, Morayo Afolabi-Brown said she cannot let her husband bathe their daughter. Her statement has generated a lot of reaction online with many people questioning her decision to stay in the marriage if she cannot trust her husband with their daughter. Below is what she said and her reply to the critics.

She said,

I absolutely trust my husband but I won’t take chances and have him bathe my daughter, because whether we like it or not, there is something flying in the air these days that is encouraging imbalance and immoralities.

I actually trust my husband but I’m just being careful because people that have experienced this kind of situation, also trusted their husbands and yet, it happened.

This statement has generated conversations online as many chastised her, while others think she may have a point.

At a time when women are demanding that men should be involved in home affairs, some men feel offended by Morayo’s statement.

 

See her response below

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I will normally not do this but I feel I should respond. It’s painful that people think I would in anyway suggest that my husband is a “potential abuser”. Sad. The truth is that the show allows us to state varied views which should be respected and understood. So understand this, there are women who have used their life to vouch that their husbands would never abuse their daughters yet we see it happen. Let’s make it easy for those women to speak up. Let’s make it easy for girls to speak up about their abusers, even if it’s their father! @tvcconnect @kemiolunloyo @tmospeaks @opes_world @lindaikejiblog @mariamlonge @beeceeugboh @yenikuti @mobolajiolawuyi @omokheowa @tmospeaks @akashatnymat @yourviewtvc @oluwaloninyo @dammyolaiya

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41 Comments

41 Comments

  1. Hadiza Inki Eko

    Hadiza Inki Eko

    December 6, 2018 at 12:12 pm

    I am support this.
    The demon of immortality is obviously everywhere.
    We must protect our children from perverts

  2. Lizzy Anyira

    Lizzy Anyira

    December 6, 2018 at 12:45 pm

    Why would she say that on TV. ? Some people sha…

  3. Diana Ogy Adoga

    Diana Ogy Adoga

    December 6, 2018 at 1:11 pm

    It’s either you trust or you don’t… If you trust him, you’ll go to rest, knowing he can’t hurt the child you both have together

    • Amaka Ezeagboso Noelle

      Amaka Ezeagboso Noelle

      December 7, 2018 at 8:16 am

      Diana Ogy Adoga trust does not encourage stupidity. Don’t forget we’re humans, talking about trust. Have you not told yourself you won’t do something but later find yourself doing the exact thing, perhaps not even once…

  4. Doris Anyanwu

    Doris Anyanwu

    December 6, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    Morayo you didn’t get it right this time, you fall my hand aswear

  5. Roselyn Godwin

    Roselyn Godwin

    December 6, 2018 at 1:43 pm

    We should probably report the whole family to child services.

  6. Arahmeeday Igberaese

    Arahmeeday Igberaese

    December 6, 2018 at 1:46 pm

    No iota of trust for her husband! I wonder how he will with this statement.

  7. Ngozi Orji Kalu

    Ngozi Orji Kalu

    December 6, 2018 at 1:59 pm

    World people….. Leave Morayo along Biko.

  8. Morahyor Nanayah Owolabi Makinde

    Morahyor Nanayah Owolabi Makinde

    December 6, 2018 at 2:38 pm

    She’s morayo also speaking for herself and not speaking on anyone’s behalf, so don’t be her jugde

  9. Iruh Juliet Nneka

    Iruh Juliet Nneka

    December 6, 2018 at 2:54 pm

    its her husband and she knows him more than anyone so you guys should free her and stop bringing an issue out of nothing.

  10. Oba Martha Ezinwanne

    Oba Martha Ezinwanne

    December 6, 2018 at 5:04 pm

    Yall crucifying her,didn’t we see a post on this page of a woman who noticed discharge from her little girls private part after being left with her father..she knows the her husband better than all of us..

  11. Glory Ayomide

    Glory Ayomide

    December 6, 2018 at 5:18 pm

    Let’s not judge, what I see to this is that she should not have said this on international Tv. U know I have seen this woman several times and you would just love her personality, but u know it’s not all that glitters that are gold. Somethings may be wrong somewhere

    • Britney Tee Ewa

      Britney Tee Ewa

      December 7, 2018 at 9:23 am

      Glory Ayomide ….I love you so much especially where you said “she should not have said it o. International TV..” The world is filled with wickedness these days ..may God keep us and families safe ..Amen

    • Glory Ayomide

      Glory Ayomide

      December 7, 2018 at 9:31 am

      Britney Tee Ewa Amen

  12. Oguejiofor Zuby Luciana

    Oguejiofor Zuby Luciana

    December 6, 2018 at 6:02 pm

    I have read on this platform about mothers who found out that the man they trust i.e the father of their child molested their daughter. Everyone feels it is impossible until it happens. Sad and painful truth, there are fathers who molest their children and when it comes to this, trust is farthest from the mind. It has absolutely nothing to do with trust. That is the harsh reality of the world we live in today and so it is indeed better to be safe than sorry. That you decide to take over bathing your baby girl child does not translate to the fact that you do not trust your husband because the world we live in today, one really needs to be careful. One thing is constant, human beings change. A man may have nothing in his mind/thought process but when the devil is looking for a tool to use, it takes the grace of God so it is better to avoid the sutuation all together. A mother trusted her daughters with their grandfather, shocker… The man raped them. Real life cases abound of women that “trusted” their daughter with father and shocker! Father molested daughter. Now understand this. She trusts her husband, she does not trust the devil. It is easy to judge from outside of the fence, not until you personally know a victim of such circumstance will you understand the need to rather thread with caution.

    • Juliet Tosan

      Juliet Tosan

      December 6, 2018 at 7:29 pm

      Oguejiofor Zuby Luciana thank you, you’ve said it all

  13. William Williams

    William Williams

    December 6, 2018 at 6:20 pm

    She had said all,don’t ever trust any one even yourself, its was those days of our parents that female children can be allowed by their parent to take care of female child,but not now,oju ti laa oti baje,olorun akowa yo

  14. Blessing Tor

    Blessing Tor

    December 6, 2018 at 6:42 pm

    Speechless.. No way am gonna say this about my hubby, she’s his child too and you can’t restrict him from father duty

  15. Opeoluwa E. Oyedeji

    Opeoluwa E. Oyedeji

    December 6, 2018 at 8:40 pm

    The mistake most mother of survivors of Child abuse made was that they trusted some members of the family so much. I support her;because when it happens it’s the mother the will blame

    • Adedoyin Raji

      Adedoyin Raji

      December 7, 2018 at 10:49 pm

      Opeoluwa E. Oyedeju
      You support her? Would you say the same about your husband on national TV? I think it all boils down to trust.

    • Opeoluwa E. Oyedeji

      Opeoluwa E. Oyedeji

      December 8, 2018 at 5:36 am

      Adedoyin Raji I support her,see this case of child abuse (a daughter being abused by her father doesn’t one day and ends.it started from one day,gradually process and boom it occurred,si what will one tell the child in future your daddy deflowered you,will you still love the said husband as one claimed now,its a life issue and if your watch #yourview u will knowa that they relate it to themselves in order to make it more reality.Prevention us better than cure.

    • Chukwuma Okpala

      Chukwuma Okpala

      December 9, 2018 at 11:00 am

      And the question

  16. Stella Walter

    Stella Walter

    December 7, 2018 at 2:10 am

    I totally agree with Morayo

  17. Doloro Dimoko

    Doloro Dimoko

    December 7, 2018 at 5:25 am

    Am sure all this publicity over her innocent comment will already make her husband feel bad. I wish he would just come out and make a statement too that will shut people up; enough already! To each, his own.

    • Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna

      Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna

      December 7, 2018 at 7:34 am

      Then she should never have made such a statement in national television. She just told the while world her own husband can’t be trusted with his daughters.

    • Doloro Dimoko

      Doloro Dimoko

      December 7, 2018 at 7:36 am

      Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna i dont really think its everyones’s business what she said or did not say. People should just try and stop making issues out of everything. Lets not get distracted people; make sure you vote, lolz!!!!!

    • Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna

      Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna

      December 7, 2018 at 9:51 am

      Doloro Dimoko really? Since you want to be selective no problem. Right now her husband is the victim of her statement. But since according to you its no one’s business no problem. What’s my own?

    • Doloro Dimoko

      Doloro Dimoko

      December 7, 2018 at 10:30 am

      Mercy Ndukwu-Umunna we have not heard him complain sis. People are just fighting where there is no fight. Its not our business yes; those who trust their hubby should continue doing so in peace.❤

  18. Jewel B Eno-Ud

    Jewel B Eno-Ud

    December 7, 2018 at 6:25 am

    Woman I support your stand,critics and crucifiers y worry? Hiaaaaan

  19. Jewel B Eno-Ud

    Jewel B Eno-Ud

    December 7, 2018 at 6:29 am

    A woman when she was young was molested by her father,so now that she has children,she is seriously on guard and can’t take any chances at all. So whatever her choices,her husband isn’t a whatever you people are thinking,she’s just avoiding stories that touch.

  20. Nina Ella Porshe

    Nina Ella Porshe

    December 7, 2018 at 7:09 am

    The problem with Nigeria is hypocrisy. She hosts Your View. That is her own view. Concentrate on your iwn view. Nigeria’s like falsehood and pretence

  21. Faiza Kaigama

    Faiza Kaigama

    December 7, 2018 at 9:16 am

    She have just apologized to her husband admist tears on TV… I think that is all

  22. Nnedi Obumse

    Nnedi Obumse

    December 7, 2018 at 10:02 am

    The reality on ground is that we have fathers who have sex with thier daughters. So prevention is better.

  23. Joy Olloh Lukan

    Joy Olloh Lukan

    December 7, 2018 at 10:23 am

    Maybe she was touched by her own father.
    She has trust issues

    • Ogunmokun Kajogbola Oluwatoyin

      Ogunmokun Kajogbola Oluwatoyin

      December 7, 2018 at 12:40 pm

      Why must you say this,if don’t know what to say must you made any comment. Na wa for you Joy olloh Lukan abeg you guys should leave her alone ,she’s doing her job.

    • Joy Olloh Lukan

      Joy Olloh Lukan

      December 7, 2018 at 1:42 pm

      Ogunmokun Kajogbola Oluwatoyin 😕 when you say your business in public, the public will give their opinion.

  24. Anita Ubah Dimaku

    Anita Ubah Dimaku

    December 7, 2018 at 10:34 am

    Nonsense post,y then do u trust him??? We need to check that husband of yours…

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