There are a million and one reasons why some women don’t want children, can’t have children or have a delay in having children, sadly, people are quick to jump into conclusion by judging these women.
Nse Ikpe Etim talks about this issue and we totally agree with her.
A woman is a person. A person who can decide what she wants to do with her body or time. So, it is extremely ignorant to expect all women to eventually be mothers.
There are many reasons why a woman may not have children. Infertility is more common than we know and to immediately ask a woman why she doesn’t have a child is extremely insensitive.
There are also women who have chosen to not have children simply because they will not put their bodies through pregnancy. They simply do not want to have kids and that’s perfectly okay.
Whatever a woman decides to do – to have babies or to not; or whether they are battling infertility is no one’s business.
Happiness is all that matters. Gratefully, it is absolutely free. My prayer and hope is that one day, we will not judge unfairly umarried or childless women.
That being said, if children will make you happy, I pray that you have loads of them. If you do not want or cannot have kids, remember that you can still find joy and do not allow anybody make you feel less.
Enjoy life. Breathe freely and enjoy all the beauty in the world.
For me, love and light are the truth and all I ever want is to live in happiness and pure truth.
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