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Woman Narrates Her 8-Year Old Daughter’s Encounter With A 10-Year Old Boy Who Tried To Forcefully Kiss Her

   

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A mother described her 8-year old daughter’s traumatic encounter with a 10-year old boy, who wanted to forcefully kiss her, and it takes us back to why it is important for parents to teach their children the essence of consent from a young age.

Sadly, the mother of this 10-year old boy saw nothing wrong in what her son did. It’s unfortunate that, if left unabated, the boy will violate other kids and the mum will cover it up.

We also need to admit the role TV plays in socializing kids. Parents should supervise the movies, cartoons and other programs their children watch. They should also adhere strictly to the parental guide age of a movie.

Read her tweets below

Yesterday we were invited to a Christmas party at a friends. Went with the kids. After eating, the kids started playing, some on phones others dancing others running around. After about 30mins, my niece brings my daughter to me and she is crying and shaking…

My niece is so upset as she explains what happened. So my daughter (8) went to the loo, and a boy followed her. When she was leaving the toilet he pulled her into the nearest bedroom and tried to kiss her and she started screaming. My niece who was in the kitchen heard…

She pushed open the door and found the boy trying to hold her down. He is 10! So she pushed him off and took my daughter whilst shouting at him. When she explained what happened I looked for the mum and she says ….ah kutamba kwevana

The other guests there were equally outraged & shocked..meanwhile the other kids heard what had happened & came to console my daughter. Then the boy comes &says to me. I love your daughter & when people are in love they are supposed to kiss.

I was so mad but he obviously doesn’t know better. I told him that love is when two people feel the same &kissing is for people who are in a relationship, at an older age. His mum got upset & told me that she knows how to raise her son who was just playing & they left.

I am still so shocked that the mum found nothing wrong with a 10 yr old boy following a girl to the loo, then pushing her into a bedroom to forcibly kiss her. Shocked that my daughter had to go through such a traumatic experience at 8 at a party. Shocked that it all took less than 10mins

I keep thinking so now what. Children can’t go to the loo by themselves? He’s 10, and if he’s not guided he will succeed at some point and it won’t be just a kiss that he will want. I took the opportunity to talk to my kids about rape, I had to & will continue to. Aish.

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25 Comments

25 Comments

  1. Emonefe Ofuase Justina

    Emonefe Ofuase Justina

    December 31, 2018 at 12:46 pm

    Hmmmm

  2. Ijeoma Buzor Odinigwe

    Ijeoma Buzor Odinigwe

    December 31, 2018 at 12:52 pm

    Nawa o

  3. Timothy Abunike

    Timothy Abunike

    December 31, 2018 at 1:05 pm

    Lack of proper beating

  4. Vivian Ifechukwude Adiche Ajufo

    Vivian Ifechukwude Adiche Ajufo

    December 31, 2018 at 1:10 pm

    Sometimes I am so ‘afraid’ for the future when you see the way most ‘modern’ parents raise their kids….and yet we continue to ask what has gone wrong in the society ……just ten, I am scared to imagine what he might do when older except God intervenes…..I Thank God your baby girl is okay, just continue to assure and help her regain her confidence…… We will never sorrow over our children.Amen!!!

  5. Jewel B Eno-Ud

    Jewel B Eno-Ud

    December 31, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    Oh Chises!!!!!

  6. Ajoke Kupoluyi

    Ajoke Kupoluyi

    December 31, 2018 at 1:32 pm

    Unbelievable!!

  7. Daisi Moses

    Daisi Moses

    December 31, 2018 at 1:34 pm

    That boy should have first of all been slapped. All of those adults were damn too slack. A very hot slap would have made a lot of sense and solved some problems.

  8. Obakpororo Agbaire

    Obakpororo Agbaire

    December 31, 2018 at 1:47 pm

    Na tie and beat before I hand am over to police

    • Vanessa Nwuba

      Vanessa Nwuba

      December 31, 2018 at 2:24 pm

      #the beating and scolding would do, cos he’s still too young to be detained in a cell, but will really spank him, I don’t know what kids of nowadays are turning into

  9. Ifeacho Uchechi

    Ifeacho Uchechi

    December 31, 2018 at 2:15 pm

    I will first land him a dirty slap then call him aside n say sorry. I’ll try to know wat prompted him to start doing such, then enlighten him on the consequences of his actions n advise him to desist from such act in the future.
    The parents I’ll unleash my full wrath on
    To my girl I’ll tell her to be mindful of such n tell her to always be vigilant n scream atop her lungs at the slightest provocation

    • Ogheneochuko Vivien Oghenevwarhe

      Ogheneochuko Vivien Oghenevwarhe

      December 31, 2018 at 6:35 pm

      But the boy’s mother has said she knows how to raise her son. I feel like giving the boy’s mother a very fine slap she cannot recover from

    • Ifeacho Uchechi

      Ifeacho Uchechi

      December 31, 2018 at 9:30 pm

      She deserves it if so.

  10. Marisa Kay Tare

    Marisa Kay Tare

    December 31, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Take your child for karate lessons, if for nothing, for self defense… A very good kick on the balls would have been the perfect manual reset for that child..

  11. Arahmeeday Igberaese

    Arahmeeday Igberaese

    December 31, 2018 at 3:21 pm

    No home training!

  12. Uloma Jacklyn Achilike

    Uloma Jacklyn Achilike

    December 31, 2018 at 4:36 pm

    The mother of the boy is ill raised that’s why she didn’t see anything wrong with what her son did.we should always protect our girl children. They are endangered in the world all over.

  13. Clara Amen

    Clara Amen

    December 31, 2018 at 4:53 pm

    It seems out of innocence dat d 10yrs old did want a kiss however parent must teach their kids what consenting is and d right age for kissing. As parents we pray for d best for our kids & hopefully d 10 yrs old understands that such an occurrence is evil and destructive and as such can land him in prison. Lets us try to educate kids on sexual attacks, abuse and forcefulness so they don’t fall victim to predator but in dis case, l thinks he did it out of sheer silliness.

  14. Ibrahim Shakiro - Ogunlola

    Ibrahim Shakiro - Ogunlola

    December 31, 2018 at 5:37 pm

    Proper naija beating first before any other things follow

  15. Uwah Chioma

    Uwah Chioma

    December 31, 2018 at 5:50 pm

    The boys mother is even the worst

  16. Doris Eberechukwu Obiorah

    Doris Eberechukwu Obiorah

    December 31, 2018 at 5:52 pm

    A resounding slap would have reset his memory.

  17. Orujekwe Raphael Eunice

    Orujekwe Raphael Eunice

    December 31, 2018 at 7:11 pm

    I dont blame dat 10yrs old boy with wat his mother is saying how wuld he knw better,a woman dat is suppose to guide him doesnt see anytin wrong in wat he did ,it shows his home training,if i was the one i could hv talked to the boy more bcos he obviously hving a bad training.

  18. Whinney Ozubide

    Whinney Ozubide

    December 31, 2018 at 10:27 pm

    10yrs wants to rape?(forcefully kiss!)

  19. Edith Tochi

    Edith Tochi

    January 1, 2019 at 10:53 am

    That boys orientation needs resetting. I thought the mum should know better than that faulty utterance. It’s obvious the boy lacks proper guide. God save his soul poor boy

  20. Oluwabusayo Afolabi Oguntuase

    Oluwabusayo Afolabi Oguntuase

    January 2, 2019 at 12:11 pm

    Most of the I’ll behavior from children of this generation is as a result of there exposure to social media… Parents should know how to control there kids when it come to the use of social media and TV

  21. Nkem Vera Obi

    Nkem Vera Obi

    January 3, 2019 at 6:41 pm

    God help that boys mother one day she will be without a son because he will be in jail,and that boy learned from someone .

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