Let’s Talk About It: Young Women Are Rushing To Buy Creams, Pills, Herbs and Syrups To “Keep” Their Men With Sex


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You may have noticed, there are now so many sellers online advertising sexual enhancement products to Nigerian women. From vagina tightener to love portions, young Nigerian women are rushing to buy creams, pills, herbsm syrups and product that promises to help them get a man or keep a man.

Fashion entrepreneur, Aderonke Enoabasi commented on this and we are wondering what our readers think about this trend too.

She wrote,

Everywhere on the internet, sex is selling. I’m tired. Come and buy this for strong penis, buy that for vagina refurbishing, buy this to last longer, bla bla bla.

I’m tired. I’m not saying people shouldn’t sell their market ooo, nothing concern me but to the young lady who probably is naïve, feels the need to learn how to twerk, spend money on vagina tightening, feels pressured on how to do 360 in bed, Nne, nobody taught me this in my early 20s. na scam.

All those things don’t guarantee you a lifetime of happiness in any relationship. Please save your money. With the right person, it will never be a criteria. Sex is important but being a woman of value is importanter. You don’t need it walahi. Even the prettiest of women get cheated on, there’s no formula to how to keep a man.

Please be more concerned on how to better your life. Equip yourself and be of great value, so that your family, future husband and your unborn children will thank you for how you lived your life, what you invested your time and money on and your overall achievement.

I felt the need to share this, big ups to all the sex experts! Respect to you and to your business, no pun intended. This isn’t about you really.

I see a lot of sex thing this days online and I just fear that I hope the younger ladies who are not investing in this products wouldn’t feel left out. This message is for them.

If you don’t have money for vagina sweetener, or whatever, its ok ooo, please don’t bother yourself, just leave it, let it be bitter. Stay clean, you’re just perfect. Please invest in webinars, seminars or programs that will change your life, equip your business, invest in sustainability, something of value…sex isn’t sustainable.

Age 20, you are doing 20 rounds, age 30, it won’t be the same again. Let’s be factual, there is time for everything. I’m here to tell you that if you can’t twerk, it’s ok, my dear sister, you are perfect. You don’t need a pussy tightener, hot pot gel, talk and do products to feel like a complete woman. If you buy this things, it’s ok its working for you, no condemnation at all.

And if it isn’t your thing or you can’t afford them cos some of them are pricey, please don’t feel pressured. The most beautiful women still get cheated on. Please let’s not use fuck to kill ourselves and destiny.

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  1. Cynthia Ugo Mcstephen

    Cynthia Ugo Mcstephen

    January 9, 2019 at 11:27 pm


  2. Ijeoma Buzor Odinigwe

    Ijeoma Buzor Odinigwe

    January 9, 2019 at 11:40 pm


  3. Ezugwu Uchechukwu Jennifer

    Ezugwu Uchechukwu Jennifer

    January 10, 2019 at 4:04 am

    Seems to be what’s in Vogue now… Girls are getting desperate cos most men are not trustworthy and full of disappointment

  4. Adenike Lawal

    Adenike Lawal

    January 10, 2019 at 8:40 am

    We tend to forget that keeping a man is more than serving him ur body. Girls should stop risking their lives in the name of keeping a man

  5. Maria Ukhureigbe

    Maria Ukhureigbe

    January 10, 2019 at 9:31 am

    Well, what do you expect? We have been programmed to believe we cannot be happy until we have a man in our life. As if that is just the main essence of being born a woman. Even women folks makes their fellow women feel inferior just because they think they more better off because they are married, whether it makes them happy or not.

  6. Pamella A Omonye

    Pamella A Omonye

    January 10, 2019 at 9:32 am

    It’s like the reigning thing… What’s the point of using medicine on him when u know all his actions aren’t coming from his heart… Deep down u will still feel d sadness… It’s just all for public display

  7. Oluwakemi Sanusi Olatunji

    Oluwakemi Sanusi Olatunji

    January 10, 2019 at 9:39 am

    It’s only men that want to be keep those things can work for.

  8. Olabisi Dairo

    Olabisi Dairo

    January 10, 2019 at 9:47 am

    Let’s pray young girls of today take to all the warning. Yes our beautiful sisters from north use kaimata but we never hear about the after effect on their body. And as a young lady you don’t need to use all what not on your vjay to attract a guy. Just be yourself, be a lady, have good manners and a good guy will come your way. Before you buy and use it think of the after effect on your person

  9. Obiageli Uzokwe

    Obiageli Uzokwe

    January 10, 2019 at 10:14 am


  10. Roselyn Godwin

    Roselyn Godwin

    January 10, 2019 at 10:18 am

    Seriously, this is happening?

  11. Olajumoke Egbeola

    Olajumoke Egbeola

    January 10, 2019 at 1:45 pm

    I don’t really understand the fuss about using “everything” to keep a man.why can’t a man use everything to keep you if you have a high value in his life? My philosophy as always been you can’t keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept! If you like you use love potions,kayamata,snake in the monkey shadow sex style,if he is a Randy community penis, biko you can never keep him on a leash laslas he’ll stray sha ni! As for that kayamata thing me I never see one Hausa man,one wife marriage o.the man has wives and concubines too so wetin con be the work of the kayamata biko? *in omawunmi’s voice* if you ask me,na who I go ask?

  12. Opeyemi Muraino Skyimage

    Opeyemi Muraino Skyimage

    January 10, 2019 at 3:16 pm

    A man that can not be kept before marriage with all your creams, pills, sex and so on will eventually become a concern of keeping him even let you over bleach yourself to the fullest. Watch well and give yourself brain before he turn you to a goal keeper.

  13. Anyanwu Goodness Ziony

    Anyanwu Goodness Ziony

    January 10, 2019 at 5:29 pm

    Wetin wey God go judge plenty.
    God help our souls

  14. Olubunmi Ola

    Olubunmi Ola

    January 10, 2019 at 7:23 pm

    Am stl laughing!!!!

  15. Phavian Okojie Anthony Onah

    Phavian Okojie Anthony Onah

    January 11, 2019 at 3:08 am

    Exactly…dey WL say kayan mata. Dey use it wtout a second tot. I had a room mate who used it, succeeded at first n became something else later. For ow long WL ladies subject demselves to becoming Guinea pigs for men to experiment on?

  16. Olanike Jimson

    Olanike Jimson

    January 11, 2019 at 2:14 pm

    This happened to be the most sensible piece I’ve come by lately…

  17. Aanu Fabusuyi Obembe

    Aanu Fabusuyi Obembe

    January 12, 2019 at 9:17 pm

    Their problemsssssss

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