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Mistakes are inevitable and a normal part of life. Taking responsibilities of our mistakes is a great way to learn, and to avoid doing the same thing again. But when the same mistake happens again, it is disappointing to family and friends.
The daughter of Senator Ademola Adeleke, popularly known as the dancing senator, Folashade Adeleke shared her father’s reaction when he heard that she was pregnant out of wedlock again.
Folashade, a YouTube vlogger was updating her fans on the journey of her pregnancy when she mentioned that one of the things she has had to deal with was her father’s reaction to her pregnancy. According to her, she had her first son out of wedlock and that was when she was young. And now that she’s expecting another baby outside wedlock too, she says her dad thinks that her life is over.
Here’s her father’s exact words to her
So my dad had gotten wind of the fact that I was pregnant and he called me and basically told me how my life was going to be over and how I’m not married and this is my second child. It really discouraged me because me being a Christian, I knew I wasn’t ready for an abortion because I’m not killing my child…
It’s crazy because when I had Kobe (my first child), I was young. I wouldn’t say Kobe was a mistake but the situation was a mistake and this situation, even though we didn’t plan it, I’m in love with him Aso (her partner), I’m not about to kill our child, I will not be able to live with myself. It was like a nightmare for me and I just felt like I just wanted to die.
I love my dad but as a father and a Nigerian father, he’s been giving me the hardest time with this pregnancy.
Watch her speak here
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Anabel Kelechi
January 8, 2019 at 9:24 am
As a Christian go and close your legs, and be faithful for your husband to come
Elizabeth Iweanoge
January 8, 2019 at 1:57 pm
Saint girl.
Anabel Kelechi
January 8, 2019 at 2:13 pm
Elizabeth Iweanoge nothing like saints, if you are lose ,you are loses,what happen to self esteem or self control
Anabel Kelechi
January 8, 2019 at 2:21 pm
Elizabeth Iweanoge maybe you are living dsame life like her
Ojoma Medugu
January 8, 2019 at 2:29 pm
God bless you dear
Doloro Dimoko
January 8, 2019 at 10:00 am
Her father is so right to be concern about her.
Ambless Ezinne Uchekwe
January 8, 2019 at 10:03 am
This pregnancy is called Hit and Run…..
Ekom Anthony Ephraim
January 8, 2019 at 10:14 am
I’m not here to judge but “first” was a mistake, repeating it the second time means she’s foolish with no good morals. It her life thou🙄
Asidoh Habibah
January 8, 2019 at 2:00 pm
Exactly my thought
Uzoo Chukwuanu Okafor
January 8, 2019 at 10:52 am
Kontinu
Agnes Mugo
January 8, 2019 at 11:35 am
you claim to be a xtian and sleeping around
Elizabeth Iweanoge
January 8, 2019 at 1:55 pm
Are u a perfect being?
AuntyMaimuna Mustapha
January 8, 2019 at 11:44 am
When u see the man responsible for the pregnancy you all will support the father for what he said …
Folashade M Alabi
January 8, 2019 at 11:57 am
She is a Christian 😆, I am Speechless.
Elizabeth Iweanoge
January 8, 2019 at 1:58 pm
Is a Christian sinless?
Juliet Gelsthorpe
January 8, 2019 at 12:41 pm
I don’t judge so I won’t be judged as well. But then,its not right whether as a Christian,Muslim or a Pagan to start having kids when you’re yet to be married. If it happens once,its a mistake. When it repeats itself,it becomes your choice
She alone knows why she chose that path. Safe delivery to her
Humaira Attahiru
January 8, 2019 at 12:55 pm
Speechless
Jaynifa Jaynie
January 8, 2019 at 1:48 pm
Christain you say but what do i know
Elizabeth Iweanoge
January 8, 2019 at 2:00 pm
Let me ask all of u, which one is better, to have the child or to commit abortion? Which one is more sinful?????
Yiinka Faiith
January 8, 2019 at 2:16 pm
But there’s a ring on her finger!
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