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I dated him for about 18months before he proposed marriage to me. We did a small family introduction but did not set a wedding date because he was travelling out for his masters degree in UK. The plan was that we will find a way for me to join him over there and get married. After about nine months of being in UK, he started misbehaving. He stopped communicating like he used to and sometimes will not pick my calls, he was always saying it is because he was busy at school or work.

Anyway, some weeks ago he called and said he wanted to have a heart to heart talk with me, he then confessed that he is seeing another girl who is the daughter of a Nigerian billionaire, the girl is crazy about him and he knows marrying her will give him the good life he has always wanted. The girl is also an American citizen.

He said he told the girl about me and they agreed to give me some money to start a business (I don’t have a job) as compensation for breaking my heart.

I cried and yelled and insulted him and cut the phone. But some days later I started thinking maybe it is not such a bad idea, I have not told my family but my friends are all saying I should collect the money and move on.

Please what do you think?

 

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120 Comments

120 Comments

  1. Uche Odiliora

    Uche Odiliora

    February 14, 2019 at 7:36 am

    He never loved u. He’s a con lover

  2. Adetutu Otukoya Olafioye

    Adetutu Otukoya Olafioye

    February 14, 2019 at 7:37 am

    Please collect the money and move on. He is definitely not the man for you. Make sure the money is huge… one day he will look back and realise he paid off his happiness. Good luck.

  3. Juliet Ali Ijwo

    Juliet Ali Ijwo

    February 14, 2019 at 7:40 am

    And u said is only women that loves money ?!

  4. Juliet Ali Ijwo

    Juliet Ali Ijwo

    February 14, 2019 at 7:41 am

    He is a big fool ,move on dear and don’t ever look back

  5. Chinelo Henrietta Udo-Nwadike

    Chinelo Henrietta Udo-Nwadike

    February 14, 2019 at 7:45 am

    Collect the money and move on, cos he will still marry her and u will loss both ends

  6. Obakpororo Agbaire

    Obakpororo Agbaire

    February 14, 2019 at 7:46 am

    Pls collect d money and move on.never accept hi. Back ,he never deserves u at all,God will bring A better man for u ,who is a gold digger like malu u call fiancee

  7. Grace Ada

    Grace Ada

    February 14, 2019 at 7:50 am

    My dear collect d money plz

  8. Mutinta Chuuya

    Mutinta Chuuya

    February 14, 2019 at 7:55 am

    You are not cheap leave him God will give you,your man trust him.

  9. Aguni Hilda Garba

    Aguni Hilda Garba

    February 14, 2019 at 7:58 am

    Collect the money jare,if you feel somehow about collecting it,let me give you my account number. After he marries her, I will tell him the story of my ex who married for money.

    • Jade Persons

      Jade Persons

      February 14, 2019 at 8:28 am

    • Cee Uche-Jay

      Cee Uche-Jay

      February 14, 2019 at 8:48 am

      Written agreement shey Na American citizen ; same day the guy dey leave Nigeria Na same day both of them go leave o
      Which kind pay off
      Her payoff Na America plus money to start life there o

    • Aguni Hilda Garba

      Aguni Hilda Garba

      February 14, 2019 at 9:28 am

      Cee Uche-Jay she will be at a loss then cos he can decide to just break up with her and the truth is, its not everyone we date that we must marry.

    • Zainab M. Allieu

      Zainab M. Allieu

      February 14, 2019 at 10:16 am

      Collect the money from them, as far as am concerned there’s nothing like love, the man is doing business, he’ll end up dumping her too for any rich American girl, e be do me I do you.

  10. Princess Diamond Goodluck

    Princess Diamond Goodluck

    February 14, 2019 at 7:58 am

    For me I wouldn’t collect any money from him, and I will let go, his not ur husband.. I will pray for my own…

  11. Udoka David

    Udoka David

    February 14, 2019 at 7:59 am

    He was never meant for you. Move on buh make sure you strip them to their last dime. He’s such a disgrace to the world of men. House boy like him

  12. Nnochiri Mary Nkechi

    Nnochiri Mary Nkechi

    February 14, 2019 at 8:02 am

    We are in same boat but the difference is that I didn’t wait for any friends to advise me. Babe collect the money and move on this guy’s are more of gold diggers this days. But he will remember this day in less that 1yr…collect the money please

  13. Idris Shittu Moriam

    Idris Shittu Moriam

    February 14, 2019 at 8:04 am

    Don’t collect d money pls, leave him n move on no matter how hard it is, God will bring a man who truly loves u n will stat true to u

  14. CeeJay Cherry

    CeeJay Cherry

    February 14, 2019 at 8:05 am

    Move on ma’am! … If possible don’t collect the money

  15. Obighwre Hope

    Obighwre Hope

    February 14, 2019 at 8:06 am

    Abeg collect the money with speed allowed him to go he his even nice some of them will not even tell you

  16. Vanessa Nwuba

    Vanessa Nwuba

    February 14, 2019 at 8:09 am

    #my dear, make sure the money you’re collecting is huge, if you’re a wise woman, look for a good business and start up something that will earn you profit, build it up, and make yourself happy, cos at the end of the day, he’ll realise that he just paid his happiness off

  17. Adekunle Busayo Tgairl

    Adekunle Busayo Tgairl

    February 14, 2019 at 8:10 am

    DO NOT COLLECT ANY MONEY, YOUR DIGNITY IS WORTH MORE, LET HIM GO AND DO IT WITH PEACE

  18. Isiaka Adiza

    Isiaka Adiza

    February 14, 2019 at 8:10 am

    I beg collect the money and move on.

  19. Gbemisola Kola-Balogun

    Gbemisola Kola-Balogun

    February 14, 2019 at 8:16 am

    Chai. My lady my lady, be glad you are get a compensation count your self lucky I thought all this existed only in nollywood movies. Kindly call him collect the money and enjoy your life the guy even likes you to think of compensating you not just leaving you like that. If he did there is nothing you can do go and collect the money biko. Sense fall on you.

  20. Gbemisola Kola-Balogun

    Gbemisola Kola-Balogun

    February 14, 2019 at 8:16 am

    Chai. My lady my lady, be glad you are getting a compensation count your self lucky I thought all this existed only in nollywood movies. Kindly call him collect the money and enjoy your life the guy even likes you to think of compensating you not just leaving you like that. If he did there is nothing you can do go and collect the money biko. Sense fall on you.

  21. Amec Victory

    Amec Victory

    February 14, 2019 at 8:18 am

    Don’t collect any money. Move on for you don’t know tomorrow

  22. Choice Obuzor

    Choice Obuzor

    February 14, 2019 at 8:28 am

    Babe collect that money ooo before you loss both ends

  23. Nora Mbee

    Nora Mbee

    February 14, 2019 at 8:28 am

    For me.. Don’t collect it

    Pay.. Has in pay, firstly that’s an insult, so all the time you both spent can now sumed up of to money, Sister be jumping that you’ve discoved who you were spending your life wasn’t worth, Clean your eyes jare

    Plenty ingredients and nonsense

  24. Ifeoma Michelle Akano

    Ifeoma Michelle Akano

    February 14, 2019 at 8:28 am

    Why cry? Hence he wants to be heartless, he should go ahead but his payday is coming..lol

  25. Opara Francisca

    Opara Francisca

    February 14, 2019 at 8:32 am

    You are heart broken and right now won’t be able to decide. He already made up his mind on the other girl whether you accept his compensation or not. You should weigh your options and do what you won’t regret. It hard but you have to move on.

  26. Adewumi Temidayo

    Adewumi Temidayo

    February 14, 2019 at 8:32 am

    Please collect it, it’s your pension money. You will find your own happiness

  27. Anabel Kelechi

    Anabel Kelechi

    February 14, 2019 at 8:41 am

    Collect d money our handsome Nigeria will start to Rush you, ask for millions

  28. Olubunmi Afinowi

    Olubunmi Afinowi

    February 14, 2019 at 8:41 am

    Which money? No amount of money can take away the hurt and disappointment. Let him go with his money and his new girlfriend. Good riddance. Moreover, he is not the one paying you off, it’s the other lady buying him off you. Please don’t get involved in that. Just let them go.

    • Mj Gold

      Mj Gold

      February 14, 2019 at 9:41 am

      Yes

    • Blessing Mukoro

      Blessing Mukoro

      February 14, 2019 at 2:10 pm

      Olubunmi Afinowi any means buying or paying my dear Sis. Collect money to set up something when you become a better person you go meet a better guy..

  29. Sarah Agbomere Momoh

    Sarah Agbomere Momoh

    February 14, 2019 at 8:46 am

    My Dear collect the money and stop posting nonesense. Love without money can die ooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 to be honest he is even nice enough to wanna pay you off, how many babes there boyfriend leaves them without saying a word.

    • Rukayyah Saba

      Rukayyah Saba

      February 14, 2019 at 10:44 am

      Aswear😂

    • Opeyemi G Oluwafemi

      Opeyemi G Oluwafemi

      February 14, 2019 at 10:53 am

      Nah so!!!

    • Je Suis Izuu

      Je Suis Izuu

      February 14, 2019 at 11:49 am

      Am wondering why she needs to collect the money! Can’t she just walk away and leave them with their money? It’s more honourable that way. If she collects the money, she’s no different from this guy who is selling his love to the highest bidder.

    • Gladys Eze

      Gladys Eze

      February 14, 2019 at 12:58 pm

      It got to b a lot of Cash involve

    • Sarah Agbomere Momoh

      Sarah Agbomere Momoh

      February 14, 2019 at 1:11 pm

      Je Suis Izuu my Dear leave that story ooo she no steal an him wan settle her, whosoever is the person my candid advice collect the money no time for nonesense.how many people for naija love don help.

    • Sarah Agbomere Momoh

      Sarah Agbomere Momoh

      February 14, 2019 at 1:13 pm

      Gladys Eze my dear lot or little ma she collect na, atleast 1/1.

    • Akande Felicia

      Akande Felicia

      February 15, 2019 at 12:46 pm

      Je Suis Izuu you are right

  30. Cherry Betty

    Cherry Betty

    February 14, 2019 at 8:51 am

    Let him Go. And don’t collect a dim from him. A guy did the same to me and now I can’t believe I dated him. Life is sweet. Let it go dear. It’s not easy to but try. Cry in ur closet, it relives the pain.

  31. Ngozi Nze

    Ngozi Nze

    February 14, 2019 at 8:52 am

    My dear do not collect his money, move on with your life and I know it’s not easy but God will console you and give you your own man whom won’t choose you over American citizenship and money, obviously that’s what he is after.

  32. Ifehwo Ohwoesiri Ena

    Ifehwo Ohwoesiri Ena

    February 14, 2019 at 8:54 am

    Are you really considering taking that money? You don’t have a job now doesn’t mean you won’t have one soon. No amount of money can pay for the time, emotional investment and all other things that have gone into the relationship within the said period. It is an insult, a slap on your face to want to pay you off and you don’t accept that! No, you don’t!

  33. Samson Folashade

    Samson Folashade

    February 14, 2019 at 8:54 am

    Collect d money please

  34. Adande Victoria Senami

    Adande Victoria Senami

    February 14, 2019 at 8:55 am

    Though the money can never be compare to the time you’ve wasted with him,
    The times and moments you shared together.
    How hurt and down you’re right now,
    And the worst that will happen to you in the future even if you have ten children for him, he will leave you one day to follow another woman because of material things.
    So please wipe off your hands ear even if it’s very hard to move on for now, but I beg you please put yourself together, gather your strength and move on and be happy because an he goat like him doesn’t deserve you please.

    As for the money do as you wish if you want to you can collect and if you dnt want to then leave him and let go of everything believe me that man will come back in shame and regret but by then sis your life must have been far better than his and the millionaire’s daughter he chose over you.

  35. Adanna Chukwuocha

    Adanna Chukwuocha

    February 14, 2019 at 9:06 am

    pls collect the money use it to set up a very good business

  36. Ofure Rueben

    Ofure Rueben

    February 14, 2019 at 9:07 am

    My dear, your worth surpasses all earthly things and the money he wants to give to you. Don’t collect any money from him. Sooner than you think, God will settle you. Money can’t not buy your worth and value, Don’t you ever forget that.

  37. Gloria Alex Ariaga

    Gloria Alex Ariaga

    February 14, 2019 at 9:11 am

    Collect the money, and bid him farewell. That guy will end up dumping u for another lady, if u eventually marry him. Let him gooooooo

  38. Grace Eneteshoma Ariko

    Grace Eneteshoma Ariko

    February 14, 2019 at 9:13 am

    Sweetie,be happy collect d money and move on………….he has just signed his death sentence.”he will see oyinbo he go call father! Relax!

  39. Queen Esther ChyChy Linuson

    Queen Esther ChyChy Linuson

    February 14, 2019 at 9:13 am

    Inukwa akuko…take the money jare. Infact collect triple the amount.
    Baby girl life is just getting.👌

  40. Abraham Sie Joseph

    Abraham Sie Joseph

    February 14, 2019 at 9:15 am

    DO NOT LEAVE PLEASE ..U SHOULD TAKE HIM TO COURT

  41. Obianuju Destiny

    Obianuju Destiny

    February 14, 2019 at 9:16 am

    Move on with ur life darling, forget him, God will not abandon u, it so hard though, forget the money,money can’t make up for ur wasted efforts and sacrifices. It well

  42. Samira Adubazi

    Samira Adubazi

    February 14, 2019 at 9:19 am

    If you collect the money you will be guilty of the same thing! Greed! If he had broken up with you without the money won’t you move on with your life! He knows what he’s doing cos he could have just paid the money into your account without letting you know and cut off! But bcos he wants to hang the same guilt on your head that’s why he’s asking you to make the decision! Be wise! The devil doesn’t give anything for free!

  43. Chisom Dike

    Chisom Dike

    February 14, 2019 at 9:21 am

    For him to have wanted to pay her off, she must be a nice lady, cheer up girlfriend, thank God it happened now, you can still move on with a better man, God will see you through, as for the money, just accept it as your gratuity if you don’t have much so you can add it up and settle yourself financially, he doesn’t worth your tears. Take heart dear.

  44. Nnaemeka Oluchi

    Nnaemeka Oluchi

    February 14, 2019 at 9:24 am

    My dear you don’t need his money, move on and see GOD@WORK IN UR LIFE.

  45. Love A. Woomee

    Love A. Woomee

    February 14, 2019 at 9:27 am

    This is a sign that if you had married him, you won’t enjoy your marriage because he will be longing for outside women.

    Take the money, if your mind agrees. Then wait for your man.
    The water wey you go drink no go pass you

  46. Florence Biowe

    Florence Biowe

    February 14, 2019 at 9:34 am

    Collect that money, invest it wisely , make a good woman of ur self, and vow to ur self to never be poor. Make sure u live ur life in a way that if he should ever see u somewhere in the future he will regret letting u go in every sense of the word. Cus whether u collect it or not he will still live.

  47. Oge Amajuoyi

    Oge Amajuoyi

    February 14, 2019 at 9:36 am

    Think of a sharp business my sister something you’d love doing.. Calculate all the money needed for capital.. Add miscellaneous too. Then add money that can sustain you for 6 months so you’d live well before you start making profit from your business. Give him the bill and make something out of your life. Thank him well too self. You don’t know this is a huge blessing. He’d cheat on you when you eventually get married. People get dumped everyday and are not offered such opportunity. This has nothing to do with pride. Your pride should come in when he comes back looking for you because he’d definitely come and please say NO. Meanwhile put yourself back in the market. Good people still exist

  48. Cynthia Lolo Amaraegbu Muoka

    Cynthia Lolo Amaraegbu Muoka

    February 14, 2019 at 9:40 am

    Please collect the money fast.

  49. Mj Gold

    Mj Gold

    February 14, 2019 at 9:41 am

    I wish I was even compensated

  50. Solomon Okoro

    Solomon Okoro

    February 14, 2019 at 9:44 am

    Put yourself together and move on. There are lots of good men out there. You worth more than gold, therefore a man who will know your worth will find you.

  51. Nina Ella Porshe

    Nina Ella Porshe

    February 14, 2019 at 9:45 am

    Forget the guy. Collect the money if you need it. Life continues.

  52. Osinakachi Paul

    Osinakachi Paul

    February 14, 2019 at 9:54 am

    too bad i cant do that to any

  53. Kasoma Jean

    Kasoma Jean

    February 14, 2019 at 9:55 am

    This is a blessing in disguise! Take it.

  54. Arinade Faloye

    Arinade Faloye

    February 14, 2019 at 9:55 am

    Collecting the money would diminish your worth in his eyes. It would show that you are just like him- a gold digger. He is giving you money so that in future he can look you in the eyes and feel justified. Love that never be bought. He would respect you more if you do not collect the money and move on. This is the story you would tell your children. Your best is definitely yet to come 🤗🤗🤗

  55. Tama Freda Ayunku

    Tama Freda Ayunku

    February 14, 2019 at 9:59 am

    How much is this money that he wants to use to pay you off? It had better be a huge sum…

    My good girl mind is saying you shouldn’t take it tho. Not worth it at all. Just gather yourself together and move on.

    But on the other hand, you need this money to set up a business so at least you have something doing. Pls take the money and cut them off.

  56. Ugo Nwokocha

    Ugo Nwokocha

    February 14, 2019 at 9:59 am

    Please oh bring d money.

  57. Uleanya Efosa Ene

    Uleanya Efosa Ene

    February 14, 2019 at 10:02 am

    Collect good money my sis nd walk!

  58. Chisom Nwosu

    Chisom Nwosu

    February 14, 2019 at 10:07 am

    Sweetheart collect d money aren’t u happy God saved like HE did to my friend Queendarling Wellington Duke

  59. Ellinah Osigwe

    Ellinah Osigwe

    February 14, 2019 at 10:40 am

    Sweetheart you are far Precious than any amount of money him and his girlfriend will give you, and am very sure you will do better in life without that money. Yes it is tempting considering the fact that you’ve got no job, but babe the Life you’ve got is better of. Do not commit or relate to them in any form, the money is a commitment, the business you want to start up with such money, will be said that they made it possible, so why accept their guilty money? Steer clear from them and their money, and you have your dignity,sure he will regret and come begging, but you life and Level will be to High for him to come close. This is nothing but a clear indication that he is not right one,let him go,and the Best shall come.

  60. Olatunji Nurudeen

    Olatunji Nurudeen

    February 14, 2019 at 10:45 am

    Pls dear don’t collect the money .it doesn’t what at all. Just wait and see the aftermath of the whole .the girl will buy another boy or she will turn him to another thing .

  61. Ogbuh Oluebube Chidindu

    Ogbuh Oluebube Chidindu

    February 14, 2019 at 10:49 am

    Pls collect the money simple. Gold diggers shouldn’t be pitied

  62. Rukayyah Saba

    Rukayyah Saba

    February 14, 2019 at 10:50 am

    Instead of wallowing in pain, collect d money nd get busy drafting ur business plans…. Just picture its as a capital for business nt paying off d rlshp stress.. Besides even if he leaves without a word,he doesn’t deserve ur pains…. Rule number One.. Love yourself first…. Wit dt u wil sure be fyn

  63. Dako Braimah Edith

    Dako Braimah Edith

    February 14, 2019 at 10:50 am

    Is that why you are cry

  64. Opeyemi G Oluwafemi

    Opeyemi G Oluwafemi

    February 14, 2019 at 10:52 am

    Please move on with your life. If you need the money go ahead and collect, if you don’t you still won’t have access to the guy. God will connect you to your perfect pair.

  65. Joy Olloh Lukan

    Joy Olloh Lukan

    February 14, 2019 at 10:58 am

    Girl go on a vacation with that money!

  66. Joan Nnenna Iwuchukwu

    Joan Nnenna Iwuchukwu

    February 14, 2019 at 11:10 am

    which kind no loose both ways collect the money. Last last karma go show. The craziness go fade

  67. Jaynifa Jaynie

    Jaynifa Jaynie

    February 14, 2019 at 11:11 am

    Lol funny how everyone is writing collect the money lol easier said than done.It’s not easy to see d one u love reject u becus of money,he wasn’t really in love with you jare,he’s an opportunist.We all deserve better,just cry ur eyes out,love urself more…and please do well not to accept d money becus u’ve indirectly sold ur self also and made a fool outta urself

  68. Tonia Arachie

    Tonia Arachie

    February 14, 2019 at 11:12 am

    His loss, Your Gain. Don’t take a Penny from him so he won’t have any reason to feel you owe him anything tomorrow when God would have made you Greater than him.

  69. Gbemi Oguntuase

    Gbemi Oguntuase

    February 14, 2019 at 11:14 am

    Collect the money and attend the wedding pls

  70. Nmecha Nwanyioma Amaka

    Nmecha Nwanyioma Amaka

    February 14, 2019 at 11:17 am

    Yes you are hurt …..I understand.. I am very sorry for that …But you have 1million reason to love again ,not all relationships leads to marriage and moreover relationship is with a purpose ,yours could be for a lovely marriage,his is good life and you cant change his reasons ooo.It is obvious he is not coming back cos he is ready to pay you off but my dear i will advice you to collect a good figure so you be make a living out of it cos even if you leave empty the truth is “There is no you and him any more”
    Your face is not in any of our currency so better collect it and set up a standard business or travel out to Luxembourg…

  71. Pius Pius

    Pius Pius

    February 14, 2019 at 11:27 am

    My dear collect d money u are luck he paying u off, some guys don’t even care dey see anything wrong, collect it n move on with ur life.

  72. Amaka Chukwuemeka Ejogbe

    Amaka Chukwuemeka Ejogbe

    February 14, 2019 at 11:30 am

    Pray God will give the answer you’re looking for in Jesus name Amen

  73. Nkechi Anaba

    Nkechi Anaba

    February 14, 2019 at 11:58 am

    Let him pay the money joo. Hope e go reach 20million?

  74. Uche Solomon

    Uche Solomon

    February 14, 2019 at 12:20 pm

    Make God your all and all and know that “all things worketh together for good to them that love God” if he abandoned you and God does not abandon you keeping going for it is for your good.

  75. Stephine Chizoro Uzoma

    Stephine Chizoro Uzoma

    February 14, 2019 at 1:04 pm

    My dear NT evry relationship leads 2 marriage,be happy he is compensating u,pls collect d money.I no of a baby mama who her baby dad compensated her wit money,travelling abroad 2 read nursing.she accepted d offer n I cn tell u 2day dat she is very comfortable.he might even b ur heaven sent.remember opportunity comes Bt once.dis is Nigeria Wer we dnt ev jobs 4 graduates

  76. Aniefiok Solomon

    Aniefiok Solomon

    February 14, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    Collect the money and move on oo…I hope that tomorrow he will not regret the decisions he’s about to take Sha…he really loved and cared about that’s why he’s giving you the offer Sha.

  77. Aniefiok Solomon

    Aniefiok Solomon

    February 14, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    Collect the money and move on oo…I hope that tomorrow he will not regret the decisions he’s about to take Sha…he really loved and cared about you that’s why he’s giving you the offer Sha.

  78. Ndulue Nnenna

    Ndulue Nnenna

    February 14, 2019 at 1:34 pm

    Move on sweetheart beside true love is not for sell

  79. Doris Enebuse

    Doris Enebuse

    February 14, 2019 at 1:49 pm

    He doesn’t love you one bit cos if he does he wouldn’t trade you for anyone or anything. So dear don’t end up losing at both ends collect the money, move on with life . True love will surely come your way. It’s not easy but it’s not always worth staying where you are not wanted. Best of luck to you.

  80. Faith Amadi

    Faith Amadi

    February 14, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    How will you feel when you start a business with the money and put in your best and your business grows to become one of the best in the country and your would be ex will come from know where and say he made you, even when you have put in your best. I’ll advice you let him go, one cannot buy love, no amount of money can melt a broken heart. That money will bring more heartache knowing where it’s coming from but we may be different in our reasoning so do what you think is right for you. Most importantly cry all you can and move on, men like this aren’t worth the stress

  81. Betty Patrick

    Betty Patrick

    February 14, 2019 at 2:09 pm

    Don’t collect a damn from him since your love for him is pure. Leave him to his conscience and God to Judge. May God calm you down with his inner peace

  82. Blessing Mukoro

    Blessing Mukoro

    February 14, 2019 at 2:18 pm

    My dear collect the money I know of a lady who her ex paid her off by opening a make up studio for her well furnished from the studio she met an international business man today my girl is bless oo.. You’re bless he’s compensating you.. He still would have left you without a dime you won’t kill him ooo some men in your life are just angels who came to help you start life to meet the right person..

  83. Rita Torkyon - Vitalis

    Rita Torkyon - Vitalis

    February 14, 2019 at 2:37 pm

    Free him without collecting one naira from him, just leave him with his conscience and move on, he will never be your last door which closes, another better door will open your way widely.

  84. Ayoola Olamide Solanke

    Ayoola Olamide Solanke

    February 14, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    U don’t have to loose in two ways.

  85. Mayaki Abdulkareem Ashiat

    Mayaki Abdulkareem Ashiat

    February 14, 2019 at 3:37 pm

    Collect it and leave in peace before it become double shortage because he will eventually jilt u

  86. Naomi E. Okonobo

    Naomi E. Okonobo

    February 14, 2019 at 3:45 pm

    It could be a test anyway. Anyhow, it’s still a very expensive joke. Leave him for good

  87. Arahmeeday Igberaese

    Arahmeeday Igberaese

    February 14, 2019 at 3:59 pm

    If the love you have for this guy is 50% I think you should collect the money.

  88. Felicity Iduma

    Felicity Iduma

    February 14, 2019 at 4:07 pm

    Let him go with is money , God will give you a better man

  89. Oghoghorie Oghenetega Lois

    Oghoghorie Oghenetega Lois

    February 14, 2019 at 4:17 pm

    Pls collect d payment let him go

  90. Oghoghorie Oghenetega Lois

    Oghoghorie Oghenetega Lois

    February 14, 2019 at 4:17 pm

    Pls collect d payment let him go, if he doesn’t go your right man will not come to you.

  91. Kwansima Ennisson

    Kwansima Ennisson

    February 14, 2019 at 4:39 pm

    Please collect the money and invest it wisely because his mind is already made up and so please you need this money to help you be on your feet all those who said you should not take the money are not being fair to you because he has used you and damp you but this money will bring back your self esteem

  92. Oroma Joseph Effanga

    Oroma Joseph Effanga

    February 14, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    It’s obvious that he has moved on, do so too, its not easy but trust me in every adversity there is an advancement..

  93. Chinwendu Ekeke Ugochukwu

    Chinwendu Ekeke Ugochukwu

    February 14, 2019 at 5:10 pm

    Is seriously

  94. Elizabeth Adegoke

    Elizabeth Adegoke

    February 14, 2019 at 6:08 pm

    He doesn’t love enough to be your hubby you should go for Thanksgiving

  95. Nellie Mello

    Nellie Mello

    February 14, 2019 at 6:40 pm

    just let him go
    no one can compete with billionaire money
    he will leave anyway

  96. Victoria O. Ogbe

    Victoria O. Ogbe

    February 14, 2019 at 8:31 pm

    Collect the money and move on. Do something with your life, a better man would come.

  97. Mummy Hafsat

    Mummy Hafsat

    February 14, 2019 at 11:01 pm

    With time the wound will heal, but don’t collect the money if your love for him is real, it might just be a test…

  98. Favour Cheche Ani

    Favour Cheche Ani

    February 15, 2019 at 12:18 am

    Let him go
    Follow your mind as Per the money matters

  99. Sani Salmat Muhammad

    Sani Salmat Muhammad

    February 15, 2019 at 6:41 am

    Dear follow ur heart

  100. Oreva Offeh

    Oreva Offeh

    February 15, 2019 at 8:45 am

    I know this kind of pain, ur heart feels like it’s going to explode and ur head contracts and expands…like literally!
    Let’s be real here, u are going to hurt for a long time BUT! Let some grounding facts keep u going…u will survive,the pain gets easier.

    To be realistic, u have lost him whether u take the money or not so don’t be proud, take the money and make sure u start something that can grow. Build urself and all will be well again.

  101. Juliet Gelsthorpe

    Juliet Gelsthorpe

    February 15, 2019 at 1:37 pm

    Get d pay off and move on my dear. A lot of us where discharged without even a proper good bye.

  102. Agi Luke

    Agi Luke

    February 15, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    Move on my sister.

  103. Miracle Ukwuoma

    Miracle Ukwuoma

    February 16, 2019 at 4:48 pm

    you thank your God and move on. If he marries you and then treats you like shit, just because he’s got an alternative, that’s a worse case scenario o! Hmmm…

  104. Zinat Inkx

    Zinat Inkx

    February 17, 2019 at 8:08 am

    It’s painful but collect the money n walk

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