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After All The Compromises, Her Boyfriend Secretly Went To Marry Another Woman! Seriously Why Do Some Men Do This?


Heartbreak is one of the most terrible feelings in the world and you never know how painful it feels until you experience it. It is more painful when the person who claimed to loved you, lied to you or left you without explanations.

Twitter user, Tola Brown landed in the hospital when she found out that her man had lied that he was going to a friend’s wedding; it was his wedding!

And she found out after two weeks of worrying from not hearing from him.

Read her tweets below



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  1. Hannah Umar

    Hannah Umar

    April 11, 2019 at 11:32 am

    Hmm. One thing i learnt recently is that a man that will settle will settle even if you have the worst behaviour, he will try to help u become a better person. You dont even need to put too much effort tryng to prove you are right for him. Most often than not, the one you sacrificed so much for will turn around & settle for the one who is way less affectionate towards him And then you begin to wonder where you went wrong. Not your fault tho,but theirs. Some men are just even bad for no reason and most cant even appreciate a good woman when they find one, they only try to use them. The best thing for a woman is to be the best for herself and not trying to prove herself worthy to any man.

    • Ada Imo

      Ada Imo

      April 11, 2019 at 12:37 pm

      My sister sorry, take heart.

    • Hannah Umar

      Hannah Umar

      April 11, 2019 at 1:03 pm

      Ada Imo thank you. But Nop i’m not heart broken just something i realised after a careful study based on the experiences people shared with me.

    • Yahdinma Geraldine Felix

      Yahdinma Geraldine Felix

      April 11, 2019 at 7:30 pm

      She’s actually at fault, ladies shouldn’t be playing wife with a man that is not their husband.

    • Hannah Umar

      Hannah Umar

      April 12, 2019 at 5:42 pm

      Yahdinma Geraldine Felix You are right sis. But most ladies whether consciously or unconsciously do the “wife duties”while still dating especially when you think those things has to be done in other to move the relationship forward Or even when you dont do it most guys in this part of the world (Nigeria) think you ain’t a wife material.(which in my opinion doesnt qualify one as a wife material) Unless of course there is a proper undertanding btw both parties not to carry out such duties untill marriage which is quite rare.

  2. Uyi Jenny Ebohon

    Uyi Jenny Ebohon

    April 11, 2019 at 1:09 pm

    Life has thought me that you cannot keep what God hasn’t kept and a man who doesn’t want to be kept by you, you will never be able to keep.

    Some men don’t even know what a good woman is until she is gone. Don’t beat yourself up. This isn’t your fault but his. So get up and move on.
    This is why helping a man you are dating is a bad move.

    • Hannah Umar

      Hannah Umar

      April 15, 2019 at 7:03 am

      Uyi Jenny Ebohon you see its tricky when you dont help he says you are not supportive or you are even stingy, making it a reason not to settle. I just really think most of our mothers then didnt do much in orienting the male child.Too much focus on women, while neglecting the men. Hence the menace of badly behaved men in the society today.

    • Uyi Jenny Ebohon

      Uyi Jenny Ebohon

      April 15, 2019 at 7:17 am

      Hannah Umar True you are right. They were raising daughters to make good wives yet completely neglected the boy.

  3. Yahdinma Geraldine Felix

    Yahdinma Geraldine Felix

    April 11, 2019 at 7:29 pm

    Don’t go playing wife until you’re properly married.

  4. Lilian Ani

    Lilian Ani

    April 11, 2019 at 9:44 pm

    My dear move on with ur life n trust God for ur own to come

  5. Owani Iroso

    Owani Iroso

    April 15, 2019 at 6:29 am

    Never treat a bf like a husband..

  6. Jossy Emmanuel

    Jossy Emmanuel

    April 15, 2019 at 7:18 am

    That is men for you, women should learn to make their selves happy first cos a man who loves u ll always love u no mata what u do or act or whatever people tells him ( whether good or bad) he ll b there for u cos he is seeing d person in u so he ll follow his heart n nt mind cos d mind can b deceived bt nt d heart an a man who does not love u ll never love u no mata how and what u do for him, u ll always b an option in his life. So pls women b wise.

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