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Are You Ashamed Of Your Honest Hustle? Then You Need To Read Lola Oj’s Note

   

People feel differently about some careers, which is dependent on how ‘glamorous’ they are. As a result of this, many have found themselves being ashamed of their hustle because they believe that their circle of friends may shame them for it.

But media personality, Lola Oj feels differently about it. According to her, no matter how plain your hustle might be, if it is honest and it puts food on your table, you should be proud to show it off.

Read her note here

Do the one you can afford, once you can afford more, go for it! Do not be ashamed of where you are currently, it’s a process.

During a conversation I had had with someone last week, my heart sunk as he narrated how for years he had been keeping his occupation a secret from his friends. He explained that he enjoyed the respect from friends which came from them thinking he was working at an exclusive company.

He didn’t want his friends perception of him to change so he had been hiding the truth. The sad part was he actually did work an honest job and earned good money for doing so! He just wasn’t an executive in the company as assumed by his friends.

This conversation had me thinking and also questioning friendships, there had been times in my life where I have been unemployed, even struggled to secure a job. If I could not share this with my friends, were they really my friends at all? 🤔
You should never have to feel embarrassed about the work you do to put food on you and your family’s table.

As long as the means are legit, to hell with everyone else. Do not stress yourself unnecessarily trying to meet the expectations of others…Do the one that you can do and enjoy your life, abeg las las when you don’t have money those people will be nowhere to be found.

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12 Comments

12 Comments

  1. Miracle Ogochukwu Joseph

    Miracle Ogochukwu Joseph

    April 27, 2019 at 10:26 am

    Yeah, so true

  2. Ajoke Kupoluyi

    Ajoke Kupoluyi

    April 27, 2019 at 10:29 am

    Fact

  3. Bamgboye M. Olaitan

    Bamgboye M. Olaitan

    April 27, 2019 at 10:33 am

    Tell them ooo

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    Cisca Francis

    April 27, 2019 at 10:33 am

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  5. Olukemi Adeyemi Anjorin

    Olukemi Adeyemi Anjorin

    April 27, 2019 at 10:41 am

    I am not ashamed of my hustle. I am a proud iru(locustbeans) maker. Aroma locustbeans is the brand. My hustle is pure and it pays my bill.

  6. Ndifreke Godwin

    Ndifreke Godwin

    April 27, 2019 at 10:41 am

    Real vibe

  7. Wealthy Efe

    Wealthy Efe

    April 27, 2019 at 10:49 am

    Las Las na only me Waka come this life!! Why do I have to care what others think about my hustling?? It pays my bills and sure can give you lunch.

  8. Bukola Martins Odetayo

    Bukola Martins Odetayo

    April 27, 2019 at 11:03 am

    Word of wisdom.

  9. Opara Francisca

    Opara Francisca

    April 27, 2019 at 11:19 am

    Legit hustle doesn’t bring shame but satisfaction and respect. Kudos to all positive hustlers!

  10. France Okafor

    France Okafor

    April 27, 2019 at 4:16 pm

    The problem is trying to please people and making urself uncomfortable

  11. Shalom Ogbonnaya

    Shalom Ogbonnaya

    April 27, 2019 at 10:57 pm

    Tell them onye weree nti ya nuru

  12. Pamela Akatobi

    Pamela Akatobi

    April 28, 2019 at 11:02 pm

    May we be the best.without being ashamed.

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