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Sophia Momodu Shares Dating Tips For Single Mums

   

Getting back into the dating field can be very difficult for single mums as they do not know what to expect. So, Sophia Momodu, a single mother of one has decided to share some tips.

We hope you find them helpful.

Love and put yourself first

If you don’t love yourself, because you’re already someone who is a caregiver and you’re fully invested in another human being as a mother, you might burn out.

So, when it comes to dating, love yourself. You also have to be easy on yourself and forgive yourself for whatever kind of sin you feel you have committed against yourself because we are the hardest on ourselves. So, forgive and put yourself first.

Be happy

You have to be happy with yourself and by yourself before you can be happy with someone else and I feel that dating is 50/5, where you give and take. So, when you’re not happy with yourself, you cannot make someone else happy.

Put your child first

You have to consider your child, knowing its not just about you. I don’t think you can make any mistake if you do that. Very recently on social media, there’s a report about a child that was found in a duffel bag and the first suspect arrested is the boyfriend of the mother. So, you need to understand that our children’s safety is important. So, you have to be sure that whoever you’re going out with, has to understand that you have a child in your life and you have priorities and that person has to understand that they don’t come first.

You now come as a package, its no longer just you. so, whoever is dating you needs to understand that there’s someone very important in your life.

Watch her speak here

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11 Comments

11 Comments

  1. Funke Amos

    Funke Amos

    April 9, 2019 at 12:45 pm

    Is this really coming from u? Practice what you preach dear

  2. Regina Ubani

    Regina Ubani

    April 9, 2019 at 1:52 pm

    She wants to start association of single mothers or what?

  3. Barakah Shuaib Adekunle

    Barakah Shuaib Adekunle

    April 9, 2019 at 3:54 pm

    Who asked d slut for advice. If you had kept yourself and wait for d right one, u won’t b in dat dilemma. Mtcheew

  4. Nkechi Anaba

    Nkechi Anaba

    April 9, 2019 at 3:59 pm

    Hmmmmm

  5. Rosemary Unique Chuks

    Rosemary Unique Chuks

    April 9, 2019 at 4:09 pm

    This Sophia is sooo beautiful oh

    • Mercy Kennedy

      Mercy Kennedy

      April 13, 2019 at 3:18 am

      Rosemary Unique Chuks with make up and filter,photoshop,editing nobody is ugly on social media, except they cannot afford good phones

  6. Enitan Omoyeni

    Enitan Omoyeni

    April 9, 2019 at 4:32 pm

    True talk

  7. Mary Ojieh

    Mary Ojieh

    April 9, 2019 at 5:24 pm

    Experience has become the Headmaster

  8. Seal Smart

    Seal Smart

    April 9, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    She has given up the fight,the winner is ASSURANCE

  9. Ujubekee Okereke

    Ujubekee Okereke

    April 9, 2019 at 6:59 pm

    Oloriburuku

  10. Abiola Olawuyi

    Abiola Olawuyi

    April 10, 2019 at 9:52 am

    I hope u aren’t high on sisha while saying this?
    U that can’t even handle ordinary 27years old davido…..dey tell us one thing one thing…..mtchew!

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