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Dear Single Woman, Please Read Every Word of This Marriage Advice from Ibukun Awosika

   

Ibukun Awosika was the keynote speaker at the 13th annual convocation ceremony of the Covenant University. Telling the graduands to take charge of their future irrespective of what it looks like in Nigeria presently, she also touched on the subject of marriage and it is worth reading!

She said,

“One of the biggest decisions that you will make in your life is to choose the man or woman that you will marry. People take it lightly but it can make or break your life. So, with all the ambition and the vision that you have, with all the dreams that your parents have for you, if you marry the wrong guy or the wrong girl, everything can be derailed one way or the other. So, don’t play with it. Don’t marry a fool, whether male or female.

Have a sense of who you are and when you have a sense of who you are, you will understand who is fit for you as the Lord leads you. You will know that it’s not about naira or kobo; it’s not about silver and gold. The son of a rich man is not a rich boy because only the one that has the cash flow has the money.

What’s the best thing that will happen? They have a big wedding. They didn’t have it for you; they had it for their own image. They will give you a house and many cars on day one, all the cars will get old at the same time and if you do not have the capacity to maintain or to keep them, you’re already in trouble.

Cash flow is the money you need to do every day, not for the wedding ceremony. So, marrying the son of a rich man is not your solution.

Seek to find the bone of your bone who can accommodate the vision and the ambition in your heart as a person. Who can be an enabler for you to emerge, who can encourage and support you? He might not look like it right now but just understand that people manifest in seasons.

Don’t allow anybody to deceive you. Look for a man that fears the Lord. A man who is responsible and right thinking, he has vision and ambition. I guarantee you, you will show up somewhere and you will be glad you met him.

There are many that have seemed like it when we were young; many of those that seemed like it did not emerge to be it. So, you cannot tell who this person will become but you can test his character, his person, his commitment, his truthfulness, his love for you and his ability to hold and to encourage you.

Especially for the girls, God made them male and female. Every promise of God is for you as it is for the male. God meant for you to fully manifest yourself. Be the best of yourself, not the best of another person at every stage of your life”.

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27 Comments

27 Comments

  1. Atkinson Haleema

    Atkinson Haleema

    September 4, 2018 at 1:36 pm

    That got me,don’t marry a fool.

  2. Titipetral Orlarthemaygee

    Titipetral Orlarthemaygee

    September 4, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Now that’s a golden advice

  3. Okeoma Linda

    Okeoma Linda

    September 4, 2018 at 8:30 pm

    True talk Ma’am. Very true.

  4. Adejoke Emechebe

    Adejoke Emechebe

    September 5, 2018 at 10:44 am

    Indeed….

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  7. Raphaella Jerry

    Raphaella Jerry

    April 28, 2020 at 11:36 am

    Thank you Mom I need more

  8. Marvis Albert

    Marvis Albert

    April 28, 2020 at 11:42 am

    Exactly, thanks.

  9. Gift Onaghise James

    Gift Onaghise James

    April 28, 2020 at 11:50 am

    True

  10. Chinelo Doris Nelodrex

    Chinelo Doris Nelodrex

    April 28, 2020 at 11:54 am

    Truth
    Its not a matter to be taken lightly

  11. Ada Imo

    Ada Imo

    April 28, 2020 at 11:57 am

    Some are killer of destiny

  12. Folasayo Kolapo Ola-mosuro

    Folasayo Kolapo Ola-mosuro

    April 28, 2020 at 12:00 pm

    Really true

  13. Mary J Emmanuella

    Mary J Emmanuella

    April 28, 2020 at 12:04 pm

    God bless u for that

  14. Ovonomo Evaresta Ayambare

    Ovonomo Evaresta Ayambare

    April 28, 2020 at 12:07 pm

    True talk…the wrong partner would even make ur children ask u questions… just be wise.

  15. Karfy Queen

    Karfy Queen

    April 28, 2020 at 12:13 pm

    So inspiring

  16. Ihudiya Ofuokwu

    Ihudiya Ofuokwu

    April 28, 2020 at 12:34 pm

    This is so true, so pls be wise

  17. Ngozi Blessing

    Ngozi Blessing

    April 28, 2020 at 12:52 pm

    Letrim Daniel

  18. Patrick Sylvia

    Patrick Sylvia

    April 28, 2020 at 12:55 pm

    Nice

  19. Titilope Temitope

    Titilope Temitope

    April 28, 2020 at 1:05 pm

    What is the definition of the wrong partner. I strongly believe that such person should be does not fit into your plan that does not mean the person will not fit into another person’s plan. God did not create any human by mistake.

    • Chinyere Irene

      Chinyere Irene

      April 28, 2020 at 1:38 pm

      Titilope Temitope you are still saying the same thing
      Wrong partner means the one not meant for you

  20. Funmi Jolaoso

    Funmi Jolaoso

    April 28, 2020 at 1:18 pm

    Jesus Christ, the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of creation of God; He that is holy, He that is true, He that hath the key of David, He that openeth, and no man shutteth; and shutteth, and no man openeth.

    Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

    Open the door of your heart to Jesus Christ and let Him in, today is the day of your salvation, He is the only way, the true and the way; He will make your ways straight.

  21. Ruthluv Ojiekomhan

    Ruthluv Ojiekomhan

    April 28, 2020 at 2:37 pm

    Many of us are victims

  22. Ebi Angel

    Ebi Angel

    April 28, 2020 at 3:16 pm

    Wonderful piece of advice.. God bless you ma

  23. Oluwatosin Salako

    Oluwatosin Salako

    April 28, 2020 at 4:15 pm

    Apt!

  24. Elerineye Ishola Olawumi

    Elerineye Ishola Olawumi

    April 28, 2020 at 10:25 pm

    This message is wow ..

  25. Busola Oshinowo- Adenugba

    Busola Oshinowo- Adenugba

    April 29, 2020 at 12:16 am

    Thank you Ma.

  26. Freda Onome

    Freda Onome

    May 17, 2020 at 8:44 am

    Princess Egharevba

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