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4 Women Share How They Were Sexually Abused By Their Gynecologists

   

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The HORROR when the person you trust to help you treat your fertility issues turns around to sexually assault you!

Some women have shared horrific stories of how fertility Doctors took advantage of their conditions to sexually abuse them. They shared this in an interview with Sunnewsonline.

Read Mrs Funke’s story below:

When I finally saw the doctor, I narrated my medical history and all the efforts that I had made to conceive. He assured me that his clinic would be my last bus stop but he would need to access my body through a vaginal scan. “I knew what the vaginal scan meant. Immediately, I stretched my body on the table for examination.

Normally, you were expected to lie down and spread your legs widely apart. I trusted the doctor, so I never queried his method. “He applied the cream on my v**ina and inserted the instrument used by doctors for a normal vaginal scan. The only odd thing he did was to touch my cli**ris and I tried to resist and he told me to calm down that this was a perfect process of inducing my hormones so that he could access my body well. “At that point, I relaxed very well, closed my eyes and spread my legs because my focus was to get a solution.

At a point, he removed the equipment and inserted it again but this time, it was much bigger. I believed that it was as a result of him fondling with the cli**ris that made me get carried away to the point that I could not tell that the stuff that was bigger inside me was actually his man-hood. “It was the noise he made when he was about to release that drew my attention and I opened my eyes and lo and behold, he was actually having s*x with me instead of the scan.”

“I was shocked as well as embarrassed. I was terrified because I could not understand if this was the process. He quickly removed the condom and threw into the wastebasket and started begging me to forgive him and allow him to proceed with the treatment. I left his office and complained to the nurse who was on duty and she said that it is not a new thing that the man is used to sleeping with most of his patients. She asked me to forgive him that she would find a way to get the hospital to compensate me so that the matter would be closed”

“When I discovered what he did, I was terrified because I could not understand why he did that to me. I have heard of how people mysteriously die and my main concern was to leave his office alive, that was why I complained bitterly to the nurse.

When I got home, I told my husband what I went through and he asked me to formally report to the police. Heaven knows that I did not consent to the act. I only had faith in the doctor that he knew what he was doing.I am legally married and I am blessed with a great husband. That was why I confided in him. He was the one who encouraged me to be bold enough to report the matter to the police so that such a crime would not continue.”

She is not the only one. The Sunnewsonline carried out investigations and we are appalled at how many women have had similar experiences

Read Mrs Vivian’s story below:

“I started bleeding at eight months of my pregnancy and my doc­tor sent me for a scan at the said hospital. When I got there, being my first time, I obtained a card and was sent to see a doctor before the scan. When I got to him, he asked my name which I gave to him.

The next thing, he started fondling my breast and I was just watching. At a point, he asked if I was not feel­ing horny and I told him that I did not even know that he was touch­ing my breast. He told me that I was a strong woman as so many women at that point, used to plead with him to have sex with them.

I asked him why he was doing it and he told me that he needed to access the fluid that would come out of nipples so he could write his report before I went for the scan.

I did the scan and left. I felt that was the process until I became pregnant again, I was sent for an­other scan but this time around, I had it at Enugu Scan Centre and when it got to my turn, the doctor just did the scan he never touched my breast. I asked him why he did not touch my breast and he told me that it had nothing to do with the scan. It was then I narrated my experience with the other doctor and he told me that the doctor was promiscuous.”

Read Bola’s story below:

 “I was desperate to get a child and was ready to go to any hospital or prayer house. One day, my husband’s friend referred me to a doctor and told me that he would be my last bus stop. I was excited and followed him. The so-called doctor asked me to bend down and remove my pants, that he wanted to examine my vagina from behind.

I discovered that he was rob­bing a cream on my clitoris and I kept quiet because I thought it was the procedure. Meanwhile, I was very vigilant because, in the course of my childlessness, I had never experienced such.

Sudden­ly, he brought out his penis and was about to insert it in my vagina when I shouted. I ran out of the of­fice screaming. That was the last time and I swore I would never visit any place that is not a good hospital. And as God would have it, am blessed with three daughters today.

Women go through a lot all in the name of making babies. No sane woman would boldly tell her husband or friends that her doctor or even pastor slept with her.”

Another woman who preferred to remain anonymous said she was almost lured into sleeping with one herbal doctor in Lagos

My friend took me to his church at Epe. I was asked to fast for seven days while he gave me some herbs to cook and drink. He asked me to return on the day of my ovulation that I would be prayed for and af­ter that sleep with my husband.

“On that day, I went there with my friend. When it was my turn to see the prophet, he asked me to re­move my pant and lie on the table. He also told me to spread my legs and close my eyes. To ensure that my eyes were closed, he used red cloth to cover my eyes. I be­came suspicious but played along although my eyes were closed my legs were not. I removed the blindfold as soon as someone touched my legs and said: “open your legs.”

I got the shock of my life when I saw the prophet’s erected penis. I screamed and pushed him aside. Instead of hid­ing his face in shame, he told me that he wanted to make me con­ceive in case my husband is not able. I ran out of his office only for my friend who heard my voice to order me to go back into the room and comply with the prophet’s instruction. She said that there it was no big deal. I left the place an­noyed and disappointed.”

 

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73 Comments

73 Comments

  1. spicy4lakemi@yahoo.com'

    kemi

    April 19, 2016 at 4:58 pm

    Hmmmm…God help us,its real women are being molested by these so called doctors,soronologist.

  2. Adaeze Newman

    Adaeze Newman

    May 4, 2020 at 9:52 am

    That’s too bad

  3. Salami Abdul Hafeez

    Salami Abdul Hafeez

    May 4, 2020 at 9:53 am

    😂😂What kind of doctor is that. He wants to take advantage of a patient. His license is meant to be seized

  4. Fashina Jolade

    Fashina Jolade

    May 4, 2020 at 10:03 am

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 abeg people of God what is the work Gynecologists b4 I comment? The grammar too big for me

    • Odedele Olayinka Williams Igbekoyi

      Odedele Olayinka Williams Igbekoyi

      May 4, 2020 at 10:10 am

      Fashina Jolade women doctor, women specialist doctor

    • Fashina Jolade

      Fashina Jolade

      May 4, 2020 at 10:51 am

      Odedele Olayinka Williams Igbekoyi thank ma, but the lady dey run na, she should allow the guy perform him duty

    • Henry Chizoba

      Henry Chizoba

      May 4, 2020 at 11:16 am

      Fashina Jolade wtf. Are you kidding? Duty with his penis?

    • Mammi Jay

      Mammi Jay

      May 4, 2020 at 12:13 pm

      Fashina Jolade by being sexually abusive? Wtf are you saying? Allow him insert his dick into her????!

    • Becky Pati

      Becky Pati

      May 4, 2020 at 12:47 pm

      Fashina Jolade Like seriously?
      Maybe you should go give yourself to the Doctor to do practical with you.

    • Joy Obekpa-Ejabz

      Joy Obekpa-Ejabz

      May 4, 2020 at 6:44 pm

      Fashina Jolade Does this look like a joke to you ?

    • Fashina Jolade

      Fashina Jolade

      May 4, 2020 at 7:44 pm

      First of all I didn’t talk this post serious the way u guys are coming out to drag me, the way the blogger explain it and the picture they use make the whole thing funny to me. And u know the way this people twist information some time so I thought it was a joke, am surprised how u guys are now dragging me on this. Have not visited any Gynecologist b4 so I don’t no how they perform their duties so please guys safe the energy

    • Fashina Jolade

      Fashina Jolade

      May 4, 2020 at 7:53 pm

      Becky Pati please madam mind the way u come out and drag people on social media, I didn’t carry this matter on my head the way u did.

    • Nma Prech

      Nma Prech

      May 4, 2020 at 11:06 pm

      Fashina Jolade don’t you see that Becky Pati is a valued commenter😁😁

    • Charity Felix

      Charity Felix

      May 4, 2020 at 11:49 pm

      Biko a gynecologists is a doctor or a physician that deals with diseases or aspects of the women reproductive organs.. when women are pregnant they do meet a gynecologists.. when women have any complications that has to do with their reproductive system they go meet the gynecologists

    • Mammi Jay

      Mammi Jay

      May 5, 2020 at 12:54 pm

      Fashina Jolade because you claim not to know how gynaecologists work .. doesn’t mean you should make your comment out of ignorance! How can they be doing their jobs when they’re sexually abusing women? If a doctor should stick his dick in you , would you call that doing his job. Or if a carpenter pokes a hole through your eye.. would you say he’s doing his job? Oh please

    • Fashina Jolade

      Fashina Jolade

      May 5, 2020 at 8:15 pm

      Mammi Jay Mrs lecturer please try and read my comments again b4 u say shit. I never said they are doing their job by sexually abusing a lady like ok! So I don’t know if a doctor have stick his dick in u like u said or a carpenter have poke a hole through ur eye b4 claiming that they are doing their job.

  5. Tracy Uzoamaka

    Tracy Uzoamaka

    May 4, 2020 at 10:31 am

    Use Norland products instead of going to see any gynocologist

    • Mammi Jay

      Mammi Jay

      May 4, 2020 at 12:15 pm

      Tracy Uzoamaka Madam seeing a disciplined , registered and experienced gynaecologist is better than using products! There are some cases way above these products ! Stop all these

    • Roselyn Godwin

      Roselyn Godwin

      May 4, 2020 at 3:10 pm

      Tracy Uzoamaka you’re kidding right?

    • Osi Nyeyirichi

      Osi Nyeyirichi

      May 4, 2020 at 3:33 pm

      Tracy Uzoamaka I just want to believe you didn’t mean what you posted. You are joking right?🙄🤨

    • Tracy Uzoamaka

      Tracy Uzoamaka

      May 4, 2020 at 3:56 pm

      Roselyn Godwin no am not ma

    • Roselyn Godwin

      Roselyn Godwin

      May 4, 2020 at 4:30 pm

      Tracy Uzoamaka please be kidding. It’s safer that way.
      You can’t honestly advice women not to see a gyno.

    • Tracy Uzoamaka

      Tracy Uzoamaka

      May 4, 2020 at 5:06 pm

      Roselyn Godwin it’s your choice o. Make una leave me

  6. Nina Ella Porshe

    Nina Ella Porshe

    May 4, 2020 at 10:31 am

    Which hospital was the doctor working for?

    • Mammi Jay

      Mammi Jay

      May 4, 2020 at 12:13 pm

      Nina Ella Porshe did you bother to open the link ? The first woman clearly gave enough information!

    • Glee Kenneth

      Glee Kenneth

      May 4, 2020 at 12:43 pm

      Nina Ella Porshe read first, before you doubt.

    • Chinwe Nwokike Ikoh

      Chinwe Nwokike Ikoh

      May 4, 2020 at 4:52 pm

      Nina Ella Porshe madam it happens ooo alot,this is just d ones u read.

    • Onyii Esther Enwedo Nwana

      Onyii Esther Enwedo Nwana

      May 4, 2020 at 5:20 pm

      Nina Ella Porshe Do ur self a favor and read.

    • Nina Ella Porshe

      Nina Ella Porshe

      May 4, 2020 at 6:32 pm

      Well, i have had some procedures done on me but i have never for once been assaulted.

    • Joy Obekpa-Ejabz

      Joy Obekpa-Ejabz

      May 4, 2020 at 6:41 pm

      Nina Ella Porshe So because you’ve never been assaulted it means it doesn’t happen to other people??? Get over yourself pls its not always about u

  7. Usman Mohammed Baba

    Usman Mohammed Baba

    May 4, 2020 at 10:31 am

    Rape

  8. Esther Abu

    Esther Abu

    May 4, 2020 at 10:37 am

    Always ask for a chaperone some are actually very unprofessional and promiscuous.

  9. Doloro Dimoko

    Doloro Dimoko

    May 4, 2020 at 10:39 am

    It sad when women doubt other women’s claims because it hasn’t happened to them. I have experienced this in the course of going for checkup for my IUD. I would have been raped if not for the fact that i was aware and the idiot defended himself by saying i seduced him 😢

  10. DouglasRich Dgreat Ekanem

    DouglasRich Dgreat Ekanem

    May 4, 2020 at 10:51 am

    Problem about to climb a problem

  11. Eunice Oluwatoyin

    Eunice Oluwatoyin

    May 4, 2020 at 11:23 am

    Diz z so unbelievable… Kinda funny too

  12. Zimuzor

    Zimuzor

    May 4, 2020 at 11:40 am

    Some doctors are mad

  13. Mary Duppy

    Mary Duppy

    May 4, 2020 at 12:04 pm

    Hmmm

  14. Ezeokoli Nneamaka

    Ezeokoli Nneamaka

    May 4, 2020 at 12:21 pm

    Nawa ooo

  15. Christianah Temitope Bajela-Oladeji

    Christianah Temitope Bajela-Oladeji

    May 4, 2020 at 12:36 pm

    Wickedness all over the place. It is well.

  16. Bakare Mariam Olabisi

    Bakare Mariam Olabisi

    May 4, 2020 at 12:39 pm

    Very sad. People take advantage of those looking for children. Pastors and doctors. I read this post and felt sad afterwards.

  17. Okikiola Omorounsekeji

    Okikiola Omorounsekeji

    May 4, 2020 at 12:49 pm

    some are not even doctors, trust me! fake people everywhere.

  18. Precious Moses

    Precious Moses

    May 4, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    Exactly happened to me too, some doctors don’t fear God o and they lack self control

  19. Gladys Boluwatife

    Gladys Boluwatife

    May 4, 2020 at 1:44 pm

    Too bad….. Very sad

  20. Alanabo Gladys Koru

    Alanabo Gladys Koru

    May 4, 2020 at 2:06 pm

    I know how so of these doctors act but that 1st Lady story sha. She won’t see she can’t detect when been fucked and when an instrument is inserted inside her. Anyways. It’s a sad and bitter experience

    • Habiba Decker

      Habiba Decker

      May 4, 2020 at 3:52 pm

      Alanabo Gladys Koru I don’t believe the 1st woman’s story too… She can’t say she doesn’t know d difference between a penis and a medical instrument. And didn’t she feel his body rubbing against hers? Or is his penis so long that he could do it from afar without touching her?

    • Alanabo Gladys Koru

      Alanabo Gladys Koru

      May 4, 2020 at 4:53 pm

      Habiba Decker I wonder too oo. Funny story

    • Habiba Decker

      Habiba Decker

      May 5, 2020 at 6:06 pm

      Alanabo Gladys Koru probably she was horny from d ‘instrument’ that was inside her already and got carried away…..

    • Alanabo Gladys Koru

      Alanabo Gladys Koru

      May 5, 2020 at 7:32 pm

      Habiba Decker oh hey. Lol

    • Habiba Decker

      Habiba Decker

      May 5, 2020 at 7:32 pm

      Alanabo Gladys Koru her ‘experience’ just doesn’t add up!
      And the innocent husband went along with it.

    • Alanabo Gladys Koru

      Alanabo Gladys Koru

      May 5, 2020 at 7:49 pm

      Habiba Decker I tell you. After enjoying herself. It’s well jaree

    • Habiba Decker

      Habiba Decker

      May 5, 2020 at 7:54 pm

      Alanabo Gladys Koru after enjoying herself her conscience no gree her sleep.🤣
      It’s well!

    • Alanabo Gladys Koru

      Alanabo Gladys Koru

      May 5, 2020 at 7:56 pm

      Habiba Decker you don talk am finish.😃

  21. Onwughalu Angy Akabude

    Onwughalu Angy Akabude

    May 4, 2020 at 2:42 pm

    Especially all these old men!

  22. Legbe Joyce Ebimini

    Legbe Joyce Ebimini

    May 4, 2020 at 3:56 pm

    Na wa

  23. Mildred Awa Nsor

    Mildred Awa Nsor

    May 4, 2020 at 5:41 pm

    Its a rule now in teaching hospitals that docs must attend to female patients with a nurse present.

  24. Grace Williams

    Grace Williams

    May 4, 2020 at 8:17 pm

    Hmm

  25. Osione Abokhai

    Osione Abokhai

    May 4, 2020 at 9:10 pm

    Jeez I’m triggered this is so messed up!

  26. Sylvia Kachi George

    Sylvia Kachi George

    May 5, 2020 at 7:45 am

    I have also experienced this from a so called pastor, unfortunately he got the slap of his life

  27. Lucky Enoc

    Lucky Enoc

    May 5, 2020 at 8:17 am

    That is nonsence

  28. Oyeronke Adeola Ibitoye

    Oyeronke Adeola Ibitoye

    May 5, 2020 at 5:09 pm

    Hmnmm life of an expectant mother! I know one day it will end in praise

  29. Agumadu Cynthia Sandra

    Agumadu Cynthia Sandra

    May 5, 2020 at 6:33 pm

    FMC student doctors are on this table ,is pathetic really 😥
    Thank God am a microbiologist,I have ideas of most illness
    So bf I see a doctor ,I already have ideas of the pattern of examinnations to expect

  30. Olaifa Folashade Ayobami

    Olaifa Folashade Ayobami

    May 5, 2020 at 9:36 pm

    😀Lol……… Very funny

  31. Emem Dan

    Emem Dan

    May 6, 2020 at 5:50 am

    One doctor actually used his fingers to poke around my vjay-Jay, I realized later that it was abuse as he ought to have used instruments only n he should have had a nurse there

  32. Stella Anyebe Olayanju

    Stella Anyebe Olayanju

    May 6, 2020 at 6:24 pm

    The problem with some women is that they don’t read, or ask questions, no body has the right to touch your body, you should ask about the treatment that the doctor wants to give to you, it’s your right.

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