Open Letter

An Open Letter To The Friend Who Gave Me a ‘Shoe’ But Want My ‘Leg’ In Return

   

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Dear Ms B,

I remember the day we reunited on Facebook after not seeing each other since we left secondary school. I put a sad status on my Facebook, and you contacted me asking me if everything was okay, I opened up to you and said I was struggling financially and as we were speaking my baby was in the hospital.

You chastised me for putting a depressing status on Facebook and encouraged me to be prayerful, I thanked you and we ended the chat. Two days later you sent me a message asking for my bank account and immediately you sent me N50, 000. I was so happy, I called you and thanked you.

You added me on Whatsapp, you also added me to the chat group of our secondary school set. I checked your Facebook page and saw you are doing well for yourself; I will not lie, I was happy to be connected to an old classmate doing so well.

You started chatting with me on Whatsapp, you bashed my husband for not having a job even after I explained that he had just lost it and he is looking for another one. You queried me for having two children when my salary is just N70, 000. I told you that the second one was not planned, and then you started calling me and my husband names for being irresponsible.

You asked me if I have ever been out of the country, and when I said no, you said my husband is not a real man if at my age I have not even been to Ghana. All these, I stomached because I felt you were just trying to motivate me to do better in life.

You started sending me on errands. The first one you did, you called me at 8 am on a Saturday and said I should go and pick something from someone and take it to another person. I dropped my children with my neighbour and jumped on the road, it was not convenient but I did it because you gave me 50k when my child was sick.

I carried out three of this type of errands for you. The fourth time, I said no, because there was no one around to leave my children with and you were very angry, you called me an ingrate indirectly. I was really pained but I didn’t say anything.

On the chat group of our secondary school set, someone posted that she was getting married and invited all of us. I typed ‘congratulations’. You called me immediately and started screaming on the phone that you forbid me from going to the wedding because the lady antagonizes you on the group.

You said if I go you will block me on all platforms and will never help me again, then you cut the phone before I could even respond. I was not even planning to go; I have not even talked to the person in many years.

I shed tears after that call; I asked myself, do I want to continue putting up with your condescension and abuse forever, because of the money you gave me. Is my self-esteem and peace of mind not worth more than 50k?  I waited till the weekend when I received my salary and I transferred your 50k back to you.

I knew you got it because you blocked me on WhatsApp and all social media immediately.

From Ms T

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

 

169 Comments

169 Comments

  1. Victoria Harold Wilson

    Victoria Harold Wilson

    June 12, 2018 at 12:52 pm

    Hmmmm!

  2. Cynthia Ugo Mcstephen

    Cynthia Ugo Mcstephen

    June 12, 2018 at 2:03 pm

    I swear I’ve been in a shoe close to this! People are something else

  3. Juliet Enifome

    Juliet Enifome

    June 12, 2018 at 2:38 pm

    God help us

  4. Yetunde Akinyemi

    Yetunde Akinyemi

    June 12, 2018 at 5:00 pm

    That kind friend na frienemy

  5. Nafeesah Bint Abubakar-Sedenu

    Nafeesah Bint Abubakar-Sedenu

    June 12, 2018 at 5:40 pm

    Haba wa! My heart was paining reading dis post! U did well by sending her back d money… Jst because of 50k, heaven wan come down 😬😬😬

  6. Erus Onome

    Erus Onome

    June 12, 2018 at 5:41 pm

    Sad though…
    But I know when to trash toxic people…. anyone that will always ring it to your hearing how low you are to them and how good and great of a helper they are to you, are not worthy of your honor, stay off them…
    This your so called friend is looking for a worshipper and someone she can other around, she want a puppet….

  7. Uduakabasi Nwaozo

    Uduakabasi Nwaozo

    June 12, 2018 at 6:03 pm

    I know this experience. I have had a friend like this before. It took the grace of God for my eyes to be open and i pulled away. This is not friendship…it is something else that has no definition!

  8. Lagos Ebikaboere Betty

    Lagos Ebikaboere Betty

    June 12, 2018 at 6:46 pm

    Thank God she cut u fast fast

  9. Mercy Olajumoke Iyiola Akande

    Mercy Olajumoke Iyiola Akande

    June 12, 2018 at 6:47 pm

    That is people for you. If you tell them your problems, they mock you with it..

  10. Gloria Ukwu

    Gloria Ukwu

    June 12, 2018 at 6:48 pm

    Imagine if this one becomes a mom in law not to talk of first lady.please sister’s watch out don’t be the sister in law of this type of lady.

  11. Cynthia Chialuka Adeniji

    Cynthia Chialuka Adeniji

    June 12, 2018 at 8:27 pm

    That’s what I call fake friend

  12. Alasan Niniola Mariam

    Alasan Niniola Mariam

    June 12, 2018 at 9:51 pm

    Hmmmm nawa oh

  13. Ama Aghama M. Jesurobo

    Ama Aghama M. Jesurobo

    June 12, 2018 at 10:26 pm

    Good riddance…

  14. Adeniran Victoria Oluwatosin

    Adeniran Victoria Oluwatosin

    June 13, 2018 at 2:41 pm

    Very brave action you took Sis. Look inward your life is far better than hers… You have a lovely family which cannot be bought with money

  15. Ogunjobi Olamide

    Ogunjobi Olamide

    June 14, 2018 at 12:26 am

    I gbadun ur way of eventually putting her in her place. No one should play God over another.

  16. Temitopeakindutire32@gmail.com'

    Akindutire Temitope

    June 27, 2018 at 12:08 am

    I read d story and i was embittered.
    Dont let ur situation press down ur self esteem.
    U have a family DAT can Neva b bought .
    Embrace your family,build up ur self esteem in order to avoid trash like dis coming up again.
    U handled d situation well.

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  18. kiffygurl@gmail.com'

    Adeyinka

    December 31, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Thats human for you. I have an elder cousin whom i cut out of my life when i’s 5months pregnant in 2017 & am happy i did

  19. Benny Nchee Egwu

    Benny Nchee Egwu

    April 27, 2020 at 4:46 pm

    inside life

  20. Folake Ogundare

    Folake Ogundare

    April 27, 2020 at 4:49 pm

    Hmmm inside dis life nawah oooo

  21. Chetachi Nneoma

    Chetachi Nneoma

    April 27, 2020 at 4:50 pm

    Hmmmm….. that’s y I like minding my biz

  22. Lauratu AhmaduBello Yusuf

    Lauratu AhmaduBello Yusuf

    April 27, 2020 at 4:51 pm

    Wow🙏🙏

  23. Amarachukwu Graccie

    Amarachukwu Graccie

    April 27, 2020 at 4:53 pm

    Yeye friends

  24. Ogedengbe Funmilayo Josephine Oderinde

    Ogedengbe Funmilayo Josephine Oderinde

    April 27, 2020 at 4:54 pm

    HUMAN BEING!!!!

  25. Maryjane Emehuo

    Maryjane Emehuo

    April 27, 2020 at 4:56 pm

    Deep shit…
    People tend to wanna control you after rendering you help. And then, when you refuse, you are tagged ungrateful. Guilt tripping starts…
    May God not put our help in the hands of those that would enslave us Las Las..

    • Nnaamah Jane

      Nnaamah Jane

      April 27, 2020 at 4:59 pm

      Maryjane Emehuo Ameeeeen o my sister that thing can be so suckling and draining to the bone

    • Maryjane Emehuo

      Maryjane Emehuo

      April 27, 2020 at 5:08 pm

      Oh yeah.. i used to have a friend like that. She often times wanna tell me to do shit for her while she sits crossed-legs and press her phone. No be say we no dey do for each other ooo… Kiakia I corrected her and told her straight up not to bring that levels ooo… she technically does that to everyone and she thinks I would fall for her whims… lailai.. she knows better now and begs before I do stuffs for her..

      Some people are just…arrgh😬

    • Joyce Imaria Imadiyi Asesho

      Joyce Imaria Imadiyi Asesho

      April 27, 2020 at 6:14 pm

      Maryjane Emehuo Amen oh, I actually just ran from a friend like this too. She wanna know everything going on in my life, very secretive and wen I realised she’s looking and talking down my personality I gave her space but she played the victim of tagging me ungrateful. But who cares? My self respect is more important than any fucking friendship

    • Oluwatobafamilusi@yahoo.com'

      Toba

      April 29, 2020 at 4:25 am

      Amen

  26. Uduak Obot

    Uduak Obot

    April 27, 2020 at 4:57 pm

    Must you have friend?
    I chose my family and siblings over any friend

    • Cynthia Chukwu

      Cynthia Chukwu

      April 27, 2020 at 5:12 pm

      Uduak Obot some family members are horrible as well,you can get a friend who is more like a family to you.

    • Uduak Obot

      Uduak Obot

      April 27, 2020 at 5:14 pm

      Cynthia Chukwu my sister I’m not usually lucky with Good friends so I chose to stay away
      My family is much more preferable anytime anyday and I’m more than ok with that.it has saved me a lot of headache

    • Cynthia Chukwu

      Cynthia Chukwu

      April 27, 2020 at 5:49 pm

      Uduak Obot you’re lucky to have your family dear, some friends don’t worth the headache

    • Uduak Obot

      Uduak Obot

      April 27, 2020 at 5:51 pm

      Cynthia Chukwu yes o ..

    • Vera Debby Irhivboje

      Vera Debby Irhivboje

      April 27, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Uduak Obot
      Humans are Humans
      Some family members too can do likewise

    • Sofiat Temidayo Subair

      Sofiat Temidayo Subair

      April 27, 2020 at 11:27 pm

      Cynthia Chukwu exactly

  27. Adaobi Philomena Abali

    Adaobi Philomena Abali

    April 27, 2020 at 4:57 pm

    Bad energy friends, stay away ooo

  28. Omotoyossie Arogundade

    Omotoyossie Arogundade

    April 27, 2020 at 4:59 pm

    Hmmmm…this life

  29. Osi Nyeyirichi

    Osi Nyeyirichi

    April 27, 2020 at 5:00 pm

    Reasons why I say no to toxic people 🤷‍♀️

  30. Zita Ekechukwu

    Zita Ekechukwu

    April 27, 2020 at 5:07 pm

    Nne she is not your friend ok? You do not need people who bring you down around you. Pls cut off from her. She has however challenged you to better. She is jealous of your family so be careful.

  31. Diepiriye Johnson

    Diepiriye Johnson

    April 27, 2020 at 5:08 pm

    Now that I refused to have friends nko? No drama

  32. Cynthia Chukwu

    Cynthia Chukwu

    April 27, 2020 at 5:10 pm

    Some people will want to choke you up simply because they offered some sort of help,toxic fellows.

  33. Joy Suzy

    Joy Suzy

    April 27, 2020 at 5:17 pm

    That’s why I always kneel down and thank God for not making women the head over men…. Men are many ways better than we women. Imagine a woman tryna control her fellow woman simply because she helped her when she needed the help…
    What are friends for if you can’t help her when she needed the help???
    Do you have to make her your slave cuz of 50k?

    • Dorcas Oizamsi Adambe

      Dorcas Oizamsi Adambe

      April 27, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      Joy Suzy

      Men are not better neither are women

    • Stella Daniel

      Stella Daniel

      April 27, 2020 at 6:27 pm

      Dorcas Oizamsi Adambe is not about the gender it is the personality. I am lucky that I came across women who made me feel love yes you heard me. My first surprise birthday was organised and sponsor my a good friend of mine I can not forget that day. Inshort she have help me in so many ways . So If you are not lucky pray God to send you an angel because I have many as friend.

  34. Chinwe Nwokike Ikoh

    Chinwe Nwokike Ikoh

    April 27, 2020 at 5:17 pm

    sadly we have alot of psychopaths like dis everywhere..I wish they really know the meaning of that word HELP!

  35. Regina A Ushie

    Regina A Ushie

    April 27, 2020 at 5:18 pm

    Symptoms of wanna be boss lady

  36. Endurance Noah

    Endurance Noah

    April 27, 2020 at 5:22 pm

    Such is life.

  37. Nono Duncan

    Nono Duncan

    April 27, 2020 at 5:36 pm

    Too bad…. may be not get help from people who will turn around to have sense of entitlement over us

  38. Vera Debby Irhivboje

    Vera Debby Irhivboje

    April 27, 2020 at 5:37 pm

    Once they render u assistance financially dey always want to use you and if u say NO dey remind u of d favor or stop helping u or call u ungrateful
    If men were God
    Inside life

  39. Abanigbe Olumide Mojisola

    Abanigbe Olumide Mojisola

    April 27, 2020 at 5:48 pm

    U took a good decision by refunding back her money… It’s well… Everything will surely get better.

  40. Tenjei Api Solange

    Tenjei Api Solange

    April 27, 2020 at 5:52 pm

    Some old friends are bad as routine fish

    • Modupe A Olatunbosun

      Modupe A Olatunbosun

      April 27, 2020 at 6:53 pm

      Tenjei Api Solange True smh..I had a nasty Experience too..

    • Tenjei Api Solange

      Tenjei Api Solange

      April 27, 2020 at 7:10 pm

      Modupe A Olatunbosun oh sorry my dear

    • Modupe A Olatunbosun

      Modupe A Olatunbosun

      April 27, 2020 at 7:24 pm

      Tenjei Api Solange Thanks I have moved on and we are on the silent treatment now..we need to be very careful whom we tell our personal issues ..most times they use it against us..life lessons.

    • Tenjei Api Solange

      Tenjei Api Solange

      April 27, 2020 at 7:25 pm

      Modupe A Olatunbosun silent treatment the best ever

    • Davies Osas

      Davies Osas

      April 27, 2020 at 8:30 pm

      Tenjei Api Solange the so called old friends are even the worst… The ones that claim to know you from Adam.

    • Tenjei Api Solange

      Tenjei Api Solange

      April 27, 2020 at 8:31 pm

      Davies Osas true

  41. Ima Igwe

    Ima Igwe

    April 27, 2020 at 5:58 pm

    What rubbish. I hate people who are manipulative. Does she think all fingers are equal. Nonsense

  42. Oarhe Ruth

    Oarhe Ruth

    April 27, 2020 at 6:01 pm

    You help me no mean say I go allow you climb my head for what

  43. Asochukwu Nzube E-imma

    Asochukwu Nzube E-imma

    April 27, 2020 at 6:21 pm

    I wouldn’t have transferred d 50k but will break free n warn her seriously. Yo hell with her

  44. Onuorah Onyinye

    Onuorah Onyinye

    April 27, 2020 at 6:33 pm

    All this control freak that called themselves friend…you are too good to even refund her her money. If men were God…mtcheeew

  45. Vivian Ifeoma Emerenini

    Vivian Ifeoma Emerenini

    April 27, 2020 at 6:34 pm

    My prayer daily is, Lord let me not be in a situation that my finances can’t settled. It’s not a funny situation. With mates everywhere to laugh.

  46. Otunba Shanu Maryam

    Otunba Shanu Maryam

    April 27, 2020 at 6:44 pm

    That is human being for you. It was just similar to my story. I stop calling and charting with her because I don’t want her to hurt my feelings again. We at lifted in Jesus name

  47. Queen Lilian

    Queen Lilian

    April 27, 2020 at 7:02 pm

    I had a friend exactly like this…. Each time I post pictures she would call and mocked my cheap hair and said instead of me to find a life I’m busy bleaching my skin and forming big girl on FB while she’s working in Dubai😀😀😀 I had to go back to God in tears each time I call her to help me come to Dubai for work madam will laugh me very well after showing me her expensive things and how much shes Worth, she will then tellme to save up and come myself……but today I only go to Dubai for vacation,shop as much as I want and fly back to school 😀😀😀. indeed JOY COMETH IN THE MORNING.

    • Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

      Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

      April 27, 2020 at 7:35 pm

      Queen Lilian so I’m not alone in this… I stopped visiting a friend because of mocking.

      If I wear flat shoe, she’ll complain
      She complained practically about everything then.. I guess she wanted me to be begging her for dress or what🙄 even complained about my phone, then I was using techno w2 (2016) no one is using this type of phone again.

      I thought she was joking all through but later realized she meant everything she was saying.. I’m glad to say I have peace since I disconnected her from my precious life.

      Some friends are like that👀

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 7:46 pm

      Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa my sister I no fit talk watin I take my eyes see for that girl hand……and I was going through a mess at that point so it really got the Best of me but God is a God of all season… I was crying 24hrs each time I remember the abuse from a friend I’ve known for over 10yrs I was forced to go visit her in Dubai make she see say God is always on time…..

    • Titus Ifunanya MaryJane

      Titus Ifunanya MaryJane

      April 27, 2020 at 7:59 pm

      Queen Lilian ur story has given me hope

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 8:12 pm

      Titus Ifunanya MaryJane whatever you maybe be going through now, always remember that it’s only temporary and JOY COMETH IN THE MORNING.

    • Janet Marcus

      Janet Marcus

      April 27, 2020 at 8:15 pm

      Thank you for sharing… indeed Joy cometh in the morning… thank for encouraging me this evening ma’am.

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 8:16 pm

      Janet Marcus welcome.

    • Odejayi Opeyemi

      Odejayi Opeyemi

      April 27, 2020 at 8:40 pm

      Queen Lilian He makes everything beautiful in His time… God never sleep…

    • Anita Eromosele Daniels

      Anita Eromosele Daniels

      April 27, 2020 at 8:43 pm

      Queen Lilian Thank God for your life! Your happiness, joy and peace of mind shall never be end ijmn

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 8:43 pm

      Yes my dear

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 8:44 pm

      Anita Eromosele Daniels Amen, God bless you too.

    • Vivian Chekwube

      Vivian Chekwube

      April 27, 2020 at 9:14 pm

      I tapped in Jesus name.

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 9:34 pm

      Vivian Chekwube amen sis.

    • Vivian Chekwube

      Vivian Chekwube

      April 27, 2020 at 9:38 pm

      And Amen!!!

    • Sekinat Umoru Martins

      Sekinat Umoru Martins

      April 27, 2020 at 11:04 pm

      Queen Lilian thanks so much you just made my evening

    • Queen Lilian

      Queen Lilian

      April 27, 2020 at 11:09 pm

      Sekinat Umoru Martins God bless you sis

    • Sekinat Umoru Martins

      Sekinat Umoru Martins

      April 27, 2020 at 11:11 pm

      Queen Lilian God bless u too

    • Chijioke Anyacho

      Chijioke Anyacho

      April 28, 2020 at 3:39 am

      Queen Lilian “Joy cometh in the morning” I’ll always remember this 💪

    • Lawal Titilope

      Lawal Titilope

      April 28, 2020 at 10:59 am

      Queen Lilian l tap into ur testimony amen!

    • Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

      Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

      April 28, 2020 at 11:03 am

      Queen Lilian some of them are enemies

  48. Uduak Phillip

    Uduak Phillip

    April 27, 2020 at 7:23 pm

    Unbelievable! Can people be this Petty and cruel? God lead me away from such friends IJN.

  49. Hafsat Ahuoiza Umar

    Hafsat Ahuoiza Umar

    April 27, 2020 at 7:24 pm

    That is why instead of me to ask my fellow woman for money i rather take a small loan or do a monthly contribution in my office. See ehh if u go through the humiliation some people will give you just becos of the help they offer you ehh, you even hate urself. May God Almighty give us the ability to provide for family and may we never lack.

    • Lami Zenda Aruwa

      Lami Zenda Aruwa

      April 28, 2020 at 5:21 am

      Ameen my daughter namesake Hafsat thank you for the prayer that is what I always do when I need money i go to my salary account and take a small loan

  50. Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

    Olarinoye Abiodun Temiloluwa

    April 27, 2020 at 7:37 pm

    Enemies pretending to be friends… Fuck yeye friends

  51. Uche Chelsea Ogbonnah Chukwura

    Uche Chelsea Ogbonnah Chukwura

    April 27, 2020 at 7:43 pm

    Join NO MORE TEARS group for prayers and also meet prayer partners. Click on the link to join. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1034895193365349/

  52. Gracia Peters

    Gracia Peters

    April 27, 2020 at 8:02 pm

    This is the reason why I don’t keep friends, my sewing machine and my baking things are my friends because they give me money and joy.

  53. Iyalekhue Osasuyi Blessing

    Iyalekhue Osasuyi Blessing

    April 27, 2020 at 8:07 pm

    Cause of 50k? I wee just avoid u sharp sharp cos I can’t kee myslf at all

  54. Kehinde Ayisat Amodu

    Kehinde Ayisat Amodu

    April 27, 2020 at 8:40 pm

    Wow

  55. Anita Eromosele Daniels

    Anita Eromosele Daniels

    April 27, 2020 at 8:42 pm

    Maureen Agwazie

  56. Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

    Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

    April 27, 2020 at 8:42 pm

    A more painful thing is if you have this kind of person as your sibling. May God lift us up.

    • Princess Annie

      Princess Annie

      April 27, 2020 at 8:59 pm

      Kehinde Francisca Adeoye Very very painful. Amen oh

    • Vivian Chekwube

      Vivian Chekwube

      April 27, 2020 at 9:10 pm

      I have o

    • Vivian Chekwube

      Vivian Chekwube

      April 27, 2020 at 9:12 pm

      Is only God knows what I have pass through in her hand,all my prayer now is for God to settle me so that I will be on my own.

    • Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

      Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

      April 27, 2020 at 9:35 pm

      Vivian Chekwube God will definitely answer your prayers.

    • Rebecca Eno Grace

      Rebecca Eno Grace

      April 27, 2020 at 10:08 pm

      You are right

    • Khadijah Kuburat Yusuf

      Khadijah Kuburat Yusuf

      April 28, 2020 at 8:41 am

      Kehinde Francisca Adeoye is there a book that says u can’t drop such siblings, if I found out or observed my blood sister or brother is want to make me loose my self esteem or look down on me probably because am not having the way she does or because she get bad mouth, believe me I will simply live without such siblings

    • Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

      Kehinde Francisca Adeoye

      April 28, 2020 at 10:23 am

      Khadijah Kuburat Yusuf what if if you need them to pay your fees and others, you can’t just drop them

  57. Chinedu Cynthia Amaechi Okeke

    Chinedu Cynthia Amaechi Okeke

    April 27, 2020 at 8:53 pm

    Brenda Chinwe Orie I value you more after reading this. You have been nothing but more than a friend to me. You are the best. Friends help me celebrate this Lady, she has gone extra mile for me still no ear have heard it. God keep blessing you for me. Love you.

    • Brenda Chinwe Orie

      Brenda Chinwe Orie

      April 27, 2020 at 8:57 pm

      Chinedu Cynthia Amaechi Okeke
      Now you gonna make me cry.. I love you too sis. 😢😢. You are indeed a true friend.

  58. Oladiran Olajumoke Fatile

    Oladiran Olajumoke Fatile

    April 27, 2020 at 8:53 pm

    Never in my life will I allow any friends to do something for me for free. I know how it feels. They’ll call themselves friends and little thing will happen between you two they’ll start behaving as if they’re God. Fuck friends. I’ve learnt a lot of lesson

  59. Chinedu Cynthia Amaechi Okeke

    Chinedu Cynthia Amaechi Okeke

    April 27, 2020 at 8:55 pm

    ,

  60. Brenda Chinwe Orie

    Brenda Chinwe Orie

    April 27, 2020 at 9:00 pm

    Phewwww.. This is indeed so disheartening to read.

  61. Vivian Chekwube

    Vivian Chekwube

    April 27, 2020 at 9:09 pm

    Not only friends,at times it comes from siblings o

  62. Edidiong Udom

    Edidiong Udom

    April 27, 2020 at 9:18 pm

    Thank you Lord for d few good friends he brought to my life so far they have proven worthy of my trust.

  63. Geni Helen Afolabi-ojo

    Geni Helen Afolabi-ojo

    April 27, 2020 at 9:24 pm

    Nothing like your self respect, you don’t have to keep all friends.. so friends need to be dropped on the way in the journey of life.Even family members…

  64. Adebola Ilo Oderinde

    Adebola Ilo Oderinde

    April 27, 2020 at 9:25 pm

    People can be so mean, thank God you have your freedom now.

  65. Iboro Ikpeme

    Iboro Ikpeme

    April 27, 2020 at 9:25 pm

    May no woman ever to this level. May God strengthen your hand to be self sufficient. God forbid such reproach

  66. Obotere Vusi

    Obotere Vusi

    April 27, 2020 at 9:52 pm

    Free training, learn how to make different fasicnator and turban.
    If you are interested say hi

  67. Rosemary Mmahi

    Rosemary Mmahi

    April 27, 2020 at 10:06 pm

    Louis Peaca thank you for being a good friend to me. I love you for not counting favours. May God bless you richly.

    • Louis Peaca

      Louis Peaca

      April 27, 2020 at 10:34 pm

      Rosemary Mmahi aww baby… U r my buddy 4 life. And trust me ur type is hard to find. Thanks for being such a sweetheart… If there will be a next life, u will still be my friend

  68. Arinze Wisdom

    Arinze Wisdom

    April 27, 2020 at 10:40 pm

    You did well by sending her back her money . Rubbish l don’t know what people think they are 😱 God can never be man and man can never be God

  69. Loveth Uzuazo Diamond

    Loveth Uzuazo Diamond

    April 27, 2020 at 11:10 pm

    I love your courage

  70. Ijeoma Ngueremalet

    Ijeoma Ngueremalet

    April 27, 2020 at 11:38 pm

    All this bullshit because of 50k????She didn’t ask you but you willingly gave it to her…..you started sending her on errands and when she stop answering your stupid demands you got angry!!!You are the devil personified!Thank goodness she paid you back your 50k

  71. Queensy Tony

    Queensy Tony

    April 27, 2020 at 11:42 pm

    Some friends are bad luck

  72. Ladi Katagum

    Ladi Katagum

    April 27, 2020 at 11:57 pm

    At least you got your self respect back……👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  73. Eke Egwuchi Phoebe

    Eke Egwuchi Phoebe

    April 28, 2020 at 12:22 am

    Nothing like self respect.I know this lady who talks down on people like this and it pains me to the bone,in my mind,i have already dropped her,i cant call someone a friend while all she thinks of is how to make me cry or loose my self esteem.Peace of mind is very important.

  74. Vicky Deni Faleye

    Vicky Deni Faleye

    April 28, 2020 at 12:25 am

    If i hear say i refund the 50k

  75. Adewunmi Adeusi

    Adewunmi Adeusi

    April 28, 2020 at 12:49 am

    Some so call friends are not supportive they can make you feel like you are not trying at all.

  76. Abdul Mariam

    Abdul Mariam

    April 28, 2020 at 2:38 am

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  77. Amaka Zita Chukwu

    Amaka Zita Chukwu

    April 28, 2020 at 3:10 am

    Thank God i don’t give anybody such opportunity to treat me like a rag.I struggle to mk ends meet.If u re my friend and i start noticing any funny movement,i will avoid you like feaces and you will never see my face again.I hv come to realize that some friends are like food needed all the time,some are like drugs needed once in a while and some are like poison not needed at all. I must also say that there are good ones, like someone i know,i don’t even know how to tag her but God will keep blessing her.

  78. Sylvia Ogochukwu Okoli

    Sylvia Ogochukwu Okoli

    April 28, 2020 at 4:43 am

    That I know you, doesn’t label you my friend!! I pick my friends carefully and I’m not stupid by doing that, my friends are like my family, they know and understands that I don’t like nonsense.

    This is not my story but I’m really upset like, why will you allow one public goat to come inside your space and insult you with your family? Are you kidding me? Seriously? She sent you somewhere because she helped you and you decided to be her housekeeper? As a woman!! I’m ashamed of you but thank God you later used your brain shaa … please next time don’t send the money back because you have paid for it already with the insults that you received. Avoid that soul because she only came to finish you.

    Aunty outside country, hope you know that you messed up with this woman’s peace of mind? If you refuse to produce an apology for this nonsense you gave her ba, hope you understand that kama is pretty?.

  79. Kayode Bamidele

    Kayode Bamidele

    April 28, 2020 at 5:59 am

    It’s a good thing she identified the toxicity of this her friend. Lots of people are in such toxic relationships, friendship and partnership and they keep suffering on a daily.

    Analyse your connections folks, remove those energy suckers from your life.

  80. AbdulRaheem Motoyosi Fatimah

    AbdulRaheem Motoyosi Fatimah

    April 28, 2020 at 6:15 am

    The day i realize you are becoming too toxic for my sanity I drop you like a dead rat. I am still paying that price with a neigbour who disguised as a friend who was nothing but an enemy of progress. She wouldn’t stop talking and reporting to whoever cares to listen and as it stands I care less. I am loyal to a fault but the moment I realize you are a snitch hmmmmmm, not even my dead mother can beg me to have a relationship with you

    Glad you realized who she was and moved on fine!

  81. Hamidat Momodu

    Hamidat Momodu

    April 28, 2020 at 6:44 am

    Justice Nelson thanks for being a good friend and not counting favours

  82. Folashade Safurat Balogun Kuti

    Folashade Safurat Balogun Kuti

    April 28, 2020 at 6:47 am

    Huuuuuuum, some friends!!!!!

  83. Onisokpemen Naomi Epelle

    Onisokpemen Naomi Epelle

    April 28, 2020 at 7:03 am

    I think she’s jealous. You don’t have the money she has but you have what she is desperately looking for and she’s bringing you down to make her feel good and superior. Not the kind of people you want to be friends with.

  84. Dauda Iyabo

    Dauda Iyabo

    April 28, 2020 at 7:40 am

    Nice one transfer the 50k straight up to earn self respect back!!!!

  85. Kelyn Tukura

    Kelyn Tukura

    April 28, 2020 at 8:00 am

    People can be funny o….cos they render a little help to you ,so they want you to dance to their tune and if you refuse,you have become the enemy.God has delivered me from such friends and have learnt my lesson.

  86. Ify Jules Chime

    Ify Jules Chime

    April 28, 2020 at 8:38 am

    That’s y u have to guard urself very well …some ladies too cant just do without friends ,for me friends have nothing to offer but inconveniences ah swear 😂….bfr i go call u my friend hmm i go don study n test u very well,,most have known u for ages n even at that i cant give u 50% trust o…no vex Naaah😆…bcos people change n female friends are very deadly ,honestly i prefer to b friend wit a guy than ladies anytime.

  87. Olabisi Dairo

    Olabisi Dairo

    April 28, 2020 at 8:39 am

    Thank you for returning that money 💰 it took your peace of mind away. That kind of friend is called satan
    It will give you 50 and collect your life in return

  88. Mystique Ehinomen Ebhomielen

    Mystique Ehinomen Ebhomielen

    April 28, 2020 at 8:46 am

    Nothing like personal pride ooo. kudos

  89. Princess Favourite Ukamakasopuruchukwu Joseph

    I don’t keep friends

  90. Nbonson Nkechi

    Nbonson Nkechi

    April 28, 2020 at 8:56 am

    Bye bye to yeye friends

  91. Hârdeyworlêy Amoo Ğold

    Hârdeyworlêy Amoo Ğold

    April 28, 2020 at 9:05 am

    A time will come when people will realize that 99% of human beings are not normal. You may go out a day spend almost 15hours outside without coming across any normal human till you get back home… But as you meet all of them they appear to be normal. Men are the most wicked of God’s creation

  92. Rose Ofori-djan

    Rose Ofori-djan

    April 28, 2020 at 9:55 am

    Setutsi Andoh

  93. Uloaku Okoro

    Uloaku Okoro

    April 28, 2020 at 10:03 am

    I like a simple life so many friends is like a heavy load.

  94. Khadijah Ummu Muhammad Ashraf

    Khadijah Ummu Muhammad Ashraf

    April 28, 2020 at 10:06 am

    The pressure is too much friends, family, even neighbors criticism on ones choices. Kinlo de de keh

  95. Oyindamola Oladotun Ajiboye

    Oyindamola Oladotun Ajiboye

    April 28, 2020 at 10:21 am

    Good riddance. You even tried for sending back the money. After you ran several errands for her that is enough payment. Na die me no fit send shishi.

  96. Obagbemiro Temitope

    Obagbemiro Temitope

    April 28, 2020 at 10:31 am

    People like this are everywhere around us. They hide under the guise of titles such as friends, relations,
    siblings, colleagues, even church members, to perpetrate untold evils against you.

    They always find ways of hurting you and justifying their deeds. They assassinate your character through gossips, instigate people against you and evoke pity from onlookers by painting you bad.

    The best way to get rid of such people is by walking away from them…and never make the mistake of explaining yourself or actions to people in self-defense.

    Time always vindicates; so long as your actions are in goodwill.

  97. Ednut Johnson

    Ednut Johnson

    April 28, 2020 at 11:17 am

    I had a similar experience,not untill I took a decisive step, to step aside from the toxic friendship…

    though he assist me but, always wanted to stand as boss whenever we had issues….like he always feels so superior…since the day I cut out, then I noticed a lot I can handle personally without any help from no one,but God…

  98. Charity Ozioma

    Charity Ozioma

    April 28, 2020 at 3:14 pm

    Nice talk

  99. Chijioke Anyacho

    Chijioke Anyacho

    April 28, 2020 at 4:39 pm

    Shes an idiot. 50k not even 200k.

  100. Faith Chikeka Ibekwe

    Faith Chikeka Ibekwe

    April 28, 2020 at 7:22 pm

    Hanty you’re even nice to have returned that money, me I will tell her off, block her from all platforms n keep the money as tfare for all the errand girl I’ve been doing for her. Mtchwww nonsense, biko learn to love yourself ooo esp in your Brooklyn stage

  101. Oluwatobafamilusi@yahoo.com'

    Toba

    April 29, 2020 at 4:22 am

    I really Thank God for you

  102. Amarachi Ifeanyi

    Amarachi Ifeanyi

    April 29, 2020 at 7:58 pm

    Awwww.so much for friendship

  103. Elizabeth Alao

    Elizabeth Alao

    April 30, 2020 at 2:14 am

    After all have done for you,ehhh dat what you hear them say when you decide not to slaves for them any more, but mind you some friend are God sent,can’t tell when you locating one,so pls let not pour d dirty water for bathing d child with d child.

  104. Jennifer Chioma Ekwenugo

    Jennifer Chioma Ekwenugo

    April 30, 2020 at 10:51 am

    Geraldine Ify Obodoefuna

  105. Lovelyn Edeke

    Lovelyn Edeke

    April 30, 2020 at 11:00 am

    Some people ehh thank God u transferred d money back

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