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1.6K1How To Handle Pressure From Self And Others
Most of the times, we do not all set out to feel pressured, saying in my Igbo tongue- I get odeshi. But certain situations just...
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983Lape Soetan: 3 Best Questions To Ask On a First Date
Those are red flags. You don’t want someone that is always complaining or someone who is arrogant. Confidence is one thing and...
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1.3KTale Alimi: The Year Of Doing – Why Execution Trumps Strategy
However after you are done dreaming, you have to take some action to see the dream come to life. If you have...
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Joyce Olawunmi Adegoke: How To Smash Your Monthly Goals
One of the most common words I have been hearing lately is ‘Smash Your Goals’’. I like this phrase because it gives...
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Lape Soetan: Biggest Dating Mistakes Single Women Make
Everybody makes mistakes. I know that I made a ton of mistakes myself when I was on dating scene so the mistakes...
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Lape Soetan: How To Meet Men When You Don’t Go Out Much
In January of this year, I sent out a survey and one of the commonest things that women put down in the...
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Lape Soetan: What To Wear On A First Date
When it comes to looking good on a first date, what you want is to make a good impression and by good...
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1.1K5 Life Lessons I Learnt From Cutting My Hair
It helped me discover some things about myself. I never knew I was a spontaneous person until I cut my hair. Some...
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958Is Asking for Cash Gifts as a Wedding Present Uncouth?
A couple’s choice to receive cash gifts for an exotic honeymoon with memories that would last a lifetime; part payment for a...
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1.8K11Abi Adeboyejo: Why Witches Don’t ‘Eat’ Babies In The Western World
I mean, why would I rub a random woman’s baby bump if I wasn’t sizing it up as a potential meal? I...
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Lape Soetan: The 3 P’s You Need When Dating
It’s easy to say all men are useless and that you just have to marry the one that is least useless. I...
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Joyce Olawunmi Adegoke: How To Deal With Procrastination And Live Your Best Life
Permit me to say that everything you will ever amount to in life starts and ends in the mind. The mind is...
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1.7KBe An Influencer
Why do you have to give up so soon when you only needed to try harder?
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Lape Soetan: How To Be Happy and Single
If you’re a single woman in your 30’s and you don’t want to be, it can be kind of depressing. The culture...
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Lape Soetan: Learning To Trust Again
There are so many men on this earth, it is actually impossible that every single man is untrustworthy. It just doesn’t add...
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Lape Soetan: What It Means When He Says He’s Not Ready For a Relationship
Men are not confused. They know what they want and when they find it, they go for it, particularly when it comes...
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Lape Soetan: How To Maintain a Non-Sexual Relationship With A Guy
Some time ago, a woman asked me how to maintain a non-sexual relationship yet monogamous relationship with a guy – without any...
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778Joyce Olawunmi Adegoke: Be The Person You Truly Want To Be
The sincere truth is that our unique identity is what makes us special in our own ways. This is what should make...
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9332This Is The FIRST Thing You Should Do If You Discover Your Husband Is Sexually Abusing Your Child
It is hard to believe the man you love, the man you are building a life with, will sexually abuse the daughter...
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2.1K684 Lessons Young Women Can Learn From Linda Ikeji’s Pregnancy Story And The Backlash
The main reason Linda Ikeji is receiving so much criticism is not because she got pregnant without being married; it is because...
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Lape Soetan: 3 Ways To Know If He Loves You
If you find that you keep having to ask your guy when you guys are going to see, when you guys are...
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Lape Soetan: How To Handle Loneliness As A Single Woman
I hear from women all the time who are successful in their jobs, some are doing Masters, they have great friends. In...
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Lape Soetan: How To Change Your Negative Beliefs About Love
Before you can turn your negative beliefs around, before you can change your negative beliefs about love into positive ones, you need...
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1.8KAbi Adeboyejo: The Lies They Tell Our Kids
‘I beta pass my neighbor’ and ‘Naija girl/boy no dey come last’ are not jokes. They should be one of our mantras...
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837Funmi Akingbade: The Health Benefits Of Sex
Sex is good when it is spontaneous, but then what should a couple do when it ceases to be? Sex, like any...
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Lape Soetan: How To Handle Your Fear Of Commitment
As a woman, you might have been saying for ages that you want to get married or that you want to get...
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842Jean Clare Oge Igwegbe: Emotional Intelligence
This is LIFE. There is so much envy, hate, sadness, jealousy, bitterness etc that would stir up frustration and anger. You don’t...
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Funmi Akingbade: Sexual Hygiene For Couples
Sweet odours can do wonders to your sex life. On the other hand, offensive odour can be so repulsive that it may...
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Lape Soetan: How To Dress So You Always Look Good
Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that if something is comfortable, it automatically isn’t something that looks good. That is not...